my man thinks i"m cheating but i"m not what to do help me?

Question

we are alway together for the time he get off from work til it" he goes back i"m mean 24-7 whats up

Answer 1

If your not cheating then his has no reason to think you are. When my second husband started that crap with me, I looked straight at him and said,'' What ever energy you used to convince yourself that I am, you need to use that same energy to convince yourself that I'm not. And I left it at that. It's been my experience that this is just a power play. He just wants to control what ever part of you that you let him. And women wear thier hearts on their sleeves.If you start trying to prove your not, you'll have to prove your not from now on., he'll never be satisfied. Once I said that to my husband his never said it again.

Answer 2

this man is obviously very insecure, you need to try your best to reassure him when ever possible.
if hes really bad with his insecurities hes probably checking your phone and email and such, so let him take your phone for a week and you have his just so he knows theres no-one else.
there could also be the reason that hes cheating on you and that is why hes accusing you because he feels guilty, alot of people do this.
but you know him better than us, the best thing to do is talk everything through with and get to the bottom of it, if he hasnt improved in a month or 2 then give him an ultimatum, STOP ACCUSING YOU AND GET ON WITH THE RELATIONSHIP :)
or its bye bye xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 3

Guys have a reason to believe everything so prove him wrong. Try to spend a lot of time with him and show him that he's the only guy in your life. If he continues to think that your cheating then maybe he isn't worth your time.

Answer 4

You don't have to prove anything, if he has a problem with something you've done, he should explain it and give you a chance to answer. If he is still not happy then he will never be happy.

I personally would be so angry at being accused of being unfaithful I would walk out of the house and not come back until he explained himself and apologised.

Answer 5

Tell him you are not cheating on him. Plus I know from experience if they are doing all the finger pointing and accusing, it means they are doing something wrong. So maybe you should question his whereabouts. And if that is not the case, then he's insecure about your relationship and ya'll might need to go to couseling.

Answer 6

First is the problem yours or his? Have you given him any reason to believe you are cheating? If not then he has the problem. This can be brought on by his past relationships. Then this is something he is going to have to get help with. If you are doing something then correct it.

Answer 7

You two need to sit down and talk about trust, and why he thinks you are cheating and why he doesn't trust that you are not or would not (assuming you wouldn't).

Without trust, your relationship is lacking an integral part of its foundation. If he can't learn to trust you, then you two are not a good match.

Answer 8

If he is accusing you of cheating and with no real reason it's the guilty conscience thing - he's cheating and he thinks what he is doing is what everybody does.

Answer 9

Men can be incredibly jealous creatures. You need to assure him and tell him to stop questioning your love for him. Ask him how he would feel if you constantly accused him of cheating.

You could also tell him that next time he accuses you......that you will go out and do it!!!!!

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Answer 10

Tell him your not and if that isn't good enough for him he can go pizz off!
Its not your job to make him feel better about being immature and insecure!