My boyfriend of 6 years lied about talking to a girl that is married. They have gone to lunch together, but never alone. He works with my mom and my sister. The only place he goes is to work and home. My mom tells me he is always with her at work, they don't have time to cheat at work, so obviously he's not cheating...right?? I got with him when I was 15 and we have 2 kids together.I really don't want to be cheated on. He tells me he loves me and only me, but he thinks we got together too young. He told me he was starting to like this girl, then he changed it to he was jealous of her and her husbands relationship. I don't know if this makes any sense, but do I just sound parinoid? I told him to stop talking to this girl to make me feel better and he has. I don't think he cheating b/c we have a great sex life...but what should I do about being jealous of him being extra nice to girls. He says all guys are like that. Are they??
2007-04-13 08:41:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think your being paraniod at all, and no, guys arent always overly nice to girls. i had the same problem with my boyfriend, and i made him stop talking to the girl- and he did. and now we dont have any problems. but i would just keep an eye out on him for a while, i would try to trust him as much as possible, but i know its hard*- just talk to him and tell him how you feel and all of that good stuff, and then see how he reacts. but definately i would watch for a while, just to see.
good luck, hope everything goes well.
2007-04-13 08:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by atomic_x_apples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might have somethingon his mind about cheatin gbut i dont think he will. he mightve just not have been ready for a commitment. Not all guys are like that. I have to go but im sorry and i hope things get better. good luck.
2007-04-13 15:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not paranoid. jealous of another relationship?? why doesnt he spend less time studying that and work on his own relationship..
i know it'll be hard to do, but if he ever lies to u again bout another woman, or simply chooses not to tell u bout it, LEAVE HIS ***, U DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!
2007-04-13 15:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Resh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are not like that. Don't accuse him without proof.
2007-04-13 15:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋