People do not like me generally, people do not like listening to me , people think i am self-obsessed, i am always wallowing in self-pity. I am good at getting blocked off by other people, i am really lazy and everything possible way and i can never get out of my own bad habits and cant stop comparing my self to other people.
Any suggestions in how to be a well-liked person.
2007-04-13 08:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by silly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-04-13 08:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by zaphodsclone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepting things that are not good or positive about oneself is not easy.
If you can see that these attitudes are not helping you, and you want to change, that is the first step.
I'd say make a list of things you don't like about yourself. Then prioritize and see which of them you can start changing immediately. Once you start changing, it will show and others will sense it.
It will take time and hard work, but only you can change yourself...No one can live your life for you.
Good luck!
2007-04-13 16:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered all your own questions.All those things others don't like stop it.I'm sure you would like to be treated with kindness and respect well it works both ways.Don't be so hard on yourself ok?You got to be good to YOU and others will see it and will respond kindly.So if ya need some other ad vice visit my site i have a journal going back 3 months and i think it might be of intrest to ya.Peace
2007-04-13 15:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can be that way.. it's is exciting for people because we're never boring, but hard to deal with at times..
Change what you can, and just accept what you can't
real people that value you will stick around
2007-04-13 15:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would analyze how you like people to treat you, and treat others that way. Its the good old golden rule. That is a good baseline to begin with.
2007-04-13 15:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by McClintock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know that your are all of the things that you listed why are you asking for suggestions, change what you are, stop feeling sorry for yourself and get off your butt and change, if you change not only will people like you better you will like yourself better, start today
2007-04-13 15:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change everything that you just mentioned is wrong with you and then people will like you.
2007-04-13 15:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change everything in the above paragraph!
2007-04-13 15:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try joining a group that values your particular personality....because if you don't change, I doubt your situation will change.
2007-04-13 15:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jolly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋