Could the point of recovery from a past hurt from a relationship be: yes you got burned, or maybe you swore it off because of career ambitions; or a combo of both. Could the point of return be: no matter how bad that was, it is far wrorse to stay single and lonely for the rest of my life. is that the point or relization to give in; to go back to having a woman in your life. i think its the breaking point that everyone meets after a long enough time from the burn.
2007-04-13 08:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that could be right, about the lonely being the breaking point. I mean it's different for everyone. Some people just swear off love for a while/forever and then they meet someone by chance who changes their mind. But if you mean after years of giving up, then yeah probably being lonely could be a breaking point. I think for a lot of women, it would be that mother side kicking in. Eventually they'll want children or a family and this will make them try again. That could happen to guys to who eventually want a family.
2007-04-13 08:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I think that period of time that people choose not to date is very healthy. I think it's your way of telling yourself your not ready and you need to recover. That time isn't always full of excitement and at times it can get lonely. But when you are ready to go out there, you will be able to do it with a clear mind. It's really important not to make your future partners pay for someones mistakes.
Good luck!
2007-04-13 15:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lenka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the day came when the risk of remaining tight in a bud was far greater than the risk of opening up and being free. And the happy flower wondered why it didnt break free soooner.
2007-04-13 15:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by gurlwithqs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. Listen, moving on will help the pain and it will let you focus on the future instead of dwelling on the past. Good Luck , Dude!
2007-04-13 15:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by smart blonde is not an oxymoron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a step back
think "what do I enjoy? ... what do I want to do?"
... and do that
stop thinking of her first when you plan your future ... once you do what you want, you'll know what you want, and then you'll have what you want
right now you're getting your butt kicked by codependency ... your Mom loves you very much, but she can't help you be a Man
2007-04-13 15:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that can be true. Each person is different though.
2007-04-13 15:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat!
2007-04-13 15:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** is the question about
2007-04-13 15:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋