Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

My husband is a young doctor, so I know he is exhausted everynight he comes home. Before my husband used to be the one that initiates sex, but now I'm usually the one thats initiating sex.....I'm tired too.....I'm spend my days at home with our 3 children....and I'm only 28. I still want to enjoy myself at night. What ways can I get my husband back in hte mood? I want serious answers to this question please.

2007-04-13 07:08:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my fiance and I LOVE the cupcake wedding cake idea. Then we could have the chocolate (which I like) and the white (which he likes) and wouldn't have the hassel of having to transport a huge cake, plus the price is more reasonable. However both sets of parents plus a woman who refers to herself as my half mom say it's a silly idea, so what is everyone elses opinion? BTW we are getting married around Halloween.

2007-04-13 07:08:36 · 43 answers · asked by princess_sam_21 3 in Weddings

o shut up ya bunch of sissies!!!!!!!

it is not!. its whats on the outside that counts........be honest!

2007-04-13 07:04:22 · 21 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married, have been for almost 7 years. 2 years ago hubby started calling this girl he works with. Long story short, he kissed her -supposedly that was all that happened. That was back in Nov/Dec '05. We had our third and last child in Dec '06. We are trying to work through all of this.
I get our cell phone bill - he sent her two video/picture messages the end of March this year.
I am so pissed.
He supposedly ended all contact with her - and I have been checking our phone bills - and I haven't seen her number pop up til now.
He also just got fixed on March 16 - he sent her those messages, whatever they were, on March 26. I find that too convinent - that he's shooting blanks now, he would start conacting her again.
What do you think?
I think he's messing around again?!!
What kind of a freakin idiot does that - he has three kids to lose and he will too???!!!
Any thoughts/advice?
Thanks.

2007-04-13 07:03:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend she isn't in the best shape that so many people exspect and she is a few pounds over what people say she should be, but I love her to death, I'll die for this girl if I had to. So what do you like more. PERSONALITY or LOOKS

2007-04-13 07:02:06 · 50 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Singles & Dating

i was with my ex for 7 years(since 9th grade) he treated me like crap the whole time but i felt like i "loved" him.now i realize he was a jerk and i was stupid. we have been apart for almost 2 years, and i am now living with my boyfriend.in the beginning he was great,since we moved in together he has turned into the most negative person i know.everything we talk about has some reason why we cant do it or is accompanied by all the "what-ifs". i am beginning to think he realized what it is really like to live with a woman that has two small children when you dont have the best job making loads of money and have a brand new car.i wonder if he is having regrets for taking the relationship here, but doesnt want to hurt me and leave.how do i find out what is really going on when all he says is yes i want to be with you i am just a negative person(which he NEVER was in the first 6mts we were together)we are having financial problems,but we never had alot of $$ before either.too much too soon?

2007-04-13 06:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by dawn222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy right well we dated once before and broke up because i got upset and said some things i didnt really mean and we did talk for the longest time and now were are talking again. but i still love him alot but i dont think he has the same feelings. so i guess my ? is how do i tell him that i love him still and i want a 2 chance

2007-04-13 06:56:47 · 24 answers · asked by amy lamb 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old and I have been in a relationship for 2 years - and we just mutually dont feel the same anymore - i dont know what the problem is ... but we love eachother to death ... its just the spark isnt there anymore ... is that we dont love eachother anymore? or is it normal?



if we feel this way now - how will we feel in 10 years!? ughhh i hate love - its soo confusing and annoying.

2007-04-13 06:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey girls, quick question. Would you ever date a guy that is 5' 7"? Or is that too short? Even if the guy is really good looking? And also more specifically, if you were 5' 6", would you ever give the time of day to a guy who was 5' 7"?? Ok thanks!!!!!

2007-04-13 06:55:07 · 39 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 06:54:21 · 15 answers · asked by EarthTone 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a boy, but I'm too shy to ask him to go out with me. I don't know what to do to intrigue him to ask me. He is as shy as I am. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me, like I do him. HELP,PLEASE ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

2007-04-13 06:39:38 · 11 answers · asked by Tamara 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay ever since birth I had blurry vision, and right now I'm wearing Glasses, but all my life I had blurry vision.

I was wondering what causes it because my mom told me she drank a little Alcohol here and there when she carried me for 9 months, and smoked a few times, but not a lot.

Is this what may have caused it?

2007-04-13 06:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by Randy S 3 in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend of 3 months now has some anger issues and is definately jealous. He'll get upset sometimes when I mention something about an ex boyfriend, like if an ex will IM me when im at his house. Or if I said I hung out with that ex boyfriend at starbucks.
Now I've only seen the exboyfriend (Mike) once since we broke up, over a year ago. We talk online and its just friendly, nothing sexual whatsoever. But my boyfriend just cant understand that I could be just his friend after we went out.
So one time he found a picture of him on my phone and freaked out. When he does get angry like this, he'll say a bunch of things, just bsing. Like "why dont you go hang out with your new boyfriend". Just little things, but he really feels hurt that I would hang out with Mike. But after he calms down and we finally work things out, he'll cry and be really upset that he took it that far. And promises he wont do it again. Like he gets so emotional. Please help me, Why does he do this?

2007-04-13 06:27:43 · 23 answers · asked by Pookie 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times SHOULD a woman have an orgasm for each session? When my wife have her orgasm, she will "withdraw" from the whole action, leaving me hanging...

I heard that many woman have multiple orgasms, but why is my wife satisfied with only one per session?

Does anyone else feel one is enough each time? I have no other experience other than with my wife. Help!

2007-04-13 06:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gilamonster 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 28 and not interested in going out anymore. I would rather just stay home and go to bed a little earlier and have a good day the following day. My girlfriend does not like to get up out of bed until like 11 when i am up at like 8. I would rather enjoy the day then the night. Is that bad at only 28?

2007-04-13 06:24:00 · 19 answers · asked by tamparav 4 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I are on shaky grounds and shes showing me signs that she doesnt really care ,but that she loves...Im so confused!!

2007-04-13 06:21:09 · 3 answers · asked by link9clarissa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 06:20:13 · 3 answers · asked by BU 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why???

2007-04-13 06:06:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find it hard to be in a relationship and be 100% happy. I am married for the second time. Before this marriage I was also engaged for a year but called it off.Also my first divorce was my choice. Now I thought I was the happiest ever but since getting married, i just dont feel the same. Everything has changed. Am I just not finding the right men. They have done nothing wrong to me. I don't know why i feel like this.Sometimes i think i am just better off dating and living alone but I wouild hate to get divorced again!! Help any advice.

2007-04-13 06:05:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 06:02:34 · 19 answers · asked by mona 2 in Friends

Or is that a totally man-made invention, a power thing - or remnant of women having abusive fathers?

I can see an escalation during the um 'process' which leads to abrasive/fun use of open hand spanking etc. but it seems some have the "rough" thing to the point where it makes me question ... or am I just utterly clueless when it comes to sex because of my general lack of experience?

(or should i just forgetaboutit and "Smack my B**** Up" as the techniuses 'The Prodigy' so eloquently stated)

2007-04-13 06:02:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 06:01:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just started dating my girlfriend two weeks ago. i got her flowers on monday, but today is our two week anaverary so should i get her flowers or not.

2007-04-13 05:54:38 · 16 answers · asked by marathoncook 2 in Singles & Dating

I was divorced back in 1998 and my father has not spoken to me since, he listened to my ex and never asked my side of the story, anyway I have two beautiful boys that live with my ex(but will be with me in July. i am afraid that he may try calling to talk to them. The way I see it is that if he cannot except me as his daughter then he cannot except my kids as his grandkids is this wrong?

2007-04-13 05:51:04 · 18 answers · asked by taysfamily2003 1 in Family

2007-04-13 05:49:04 · 10 answers · asked by stuevts 2 in Singles & Dating

my loser friend made up a girlfriend. um what does he do since we all found out it wasnt real. he even made up that he fooled around wit her. comeon. made up friends died in preschool

2007-04-13 05:45:59 · 11 answers · asked by flyingtoast1234 2 in Friends

We have joint custody, but when they stay with me, can I go get them tested?

2007-04-13 05:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by jeffrobucsfan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your hobby?
Occupation?
If you could have one wish what would it be?
Who do you love more than anything?
Are you outgoing, layed back, shy?

2007-04-13 05:43:26 · 14 answers · asked by Casey 3 in Family

2007-04-13 05:42:50 · 3 answers · asked by Alex N 3 in Singles & Dating

He spends almost everyday with me, we talk two three times each day, he cuddles and hugs on me all the time, we have shared intimate moments, but of course being a virgo he denies he likes me, but his actions state something totally different, it 's been over a month. How long does it take for you people to come around, he has told me he loves me, but as a friend of course, and that he can always see me as a friend for the rest of his life. I know virgos are slow movers - but how long? We are so comfortable together it's crazy we share the same moral values, he's a nerd - so he likes my sharp wit, and my conservative but sexy style, being a taurus I bring out the hidden passion. But you people are flighty - Should I give up on a relationship and just look at him as a friend?

2007-04-13 05:40:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating