2007-04-13 06:54:21 · 15 answers · asked by EarthTone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats there not to trust? i prefer male friends over girl friends and im very trustworthy~
2007-04-13 06:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by cellie_mania 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have lots of male friends who i have known for many years and my partner of 10 years is fine with it and has 100% trust in me and our relationship.
Just because a girl has male friends does not make her untrust worthy, it just shows how insecure and jealous her partner is.
Is she supposed to stop all contact with her male friends, if this is the case this is where the partner then plays the power trip game and uses his insecurities to his advantage and makes her feel quilty.
Relationships require trust from both parties, you've either got it or you haven't!
2007-04-13 07:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it would depend how she interracts with them. I have lots of male friends, and I make sure that they could never even think that I would flirt with them. I don't touch them, dance sexy with them etc. I've seen other girls do this with their male friends and not mean anything by it at all - they see their relationship as purely platonic, but I can understand why a boyfriend might get jealous.
I have to say that I come across lots of girls who think it's cool to have guy friends, like there's something special about it. I think that's weird. A friend is a friend guy or girl in my opinion.
2007-04-13 09:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by magic_porridge_pot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a girl has a lots of male friends does not mean that she is going to go off with one of them!! I think you will find that the number of male friends a girl has does not increase her chances of cheating. In other words, a girl with no male friends is just as likely to cheat on her partner than someone with lots of male friends. You just need to learn to trust her!! Some girls prefer the company of males as opposed to the sometimes bitchy, shallow company of girls!! If you do not learn to trust her, all you are going to do is scare in her away. Girls don't (well i don't) like people who are constantly jealous - it is not an admirable trait to have!! How would you feel if she was the one not to trust you?? It does not feel nice to know that partner does not trust you!! Just remember your jealousy is just as likely to kill the relationship as is the chance of her cheating!! You can not determine the liklihood of someone cheating based on the number of male friends they have!! I thus think you need to learn to deal with your jealous streak! If she did not like you, she would most likely not be with you!! Just remember that!!
2007-04-13 07:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and I have Female friends!
Trust comes with time, Don't ruin your relationship by being jealous and worrying about what might happen
2007-04-13 07:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by nuk_su_kow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look - if you dont trust her, just because she has a lot of male friends and she speaks to them a lot, should you reall be in this relationship? if you think you have a reason not to trust her, or you think she'd be unfaithful - you got some issues.
2007-04-13 06:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by bluebird 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be open about how you feel about it. If you are suspicious about anything ask her outright, straighforwardly and tell her why you think this. If she is lying you will know...... not asking just makes it easier to hide things.
I think Kandyman has made some good points, I doubt there are many truely platonic friendships between men and women, but it doesn't necessarily mean anyone is acting on their feelings.
2007-04-13 08:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't. i have many female mates, who think that they close to me and think im just a mate. some of which i been with. they got boyfriends and know that i still wanna be with them, not a relationship. but they don't tell thier mans this detail, and when things get hecktic they call me for some physical relieve. i ain't complaining. but i would never trust a woman who "chats to loads of men who are just friends".
loads of women usually chat sh*t about trust. and i witnessed this being in done in front of me. and i see the man falling for this like a stone in a river. your gonna drown. play her game.
2007-04-13 07:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by KandyMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the basis to a relationship.
Just because she has male friends, does not mean she is sleeping with them!
2007-04-13 06:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u can't trust ur girlfriend to be with other guys then there's no point being in a relationship with her, do u jump into bed with all ur female friends?
2007-04-13 07:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by kittums 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋