I am in love. What now?

Question

I am in love with a boy, but I'm too shy to ask him to go out with me. I don't know what to do to intrigue him to ask me. He is as shy as I am. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me, like I do him. HELP,PLEASE ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

Answer 1

wow thats weird you extra details went off the screen... cool... ask him out, duh! or send him nice stuff to see if he likes it, just to it secretly. if he does write him a note

Answer 2

you are in love with a guy who you have never even been out with? careful, there is a big difference between love, lust, and lastly infatuation. I would guess you are in the last of the 3. Not a bad thing. It happens to everyone I think. The best advice I can give you is to suck it up, find the courage, and straight up ask him out. At least then you will know. The worst thing that could happen is he says no. So what? Life goes on. But at least you will know you tried. It is better to fail than never even try. Trust me.

Answer 3

Take things slow. Search for this cute article on "shy guys". It's called "how to get a shy man to ask you out" by caterina christakos. It gives realistic advice on how to strike up a conversation and how to flirt with your eyes to let him know you're interested..etc. Shy guys need a little encouragement from you. And be patient. Oh another site is wikiHOW.com, how to start a conversation that might help you get over your fear to talk to him.

Answer 4

It sounds like you don't even really know this person other than his looks and actions...so how can you truly be in love?
you end with you like him...that is much better and believable. someone has got to break the ice somehow. Don't go through friends. Either strike up a conversation with him or write him a note.

be cool...

Answer 5

He probably has some idea that you like him. I think you should ask him out and let him know how you feel. Don't procrastinate any longer. Because guess what? There may be another woman who is interested and she is not going to hestitate to make her move.

Answer 6

It's best if you just lay your cards on the table. Tell him you really like him and would like to go out with him sometime. He'll probably be very flattered.

Answer 7

aww. that's cute
i know how you feel
if you can just summon up the courage, ask him out
i'm in pain myself, but i can't be sure i love him until anything happens
only problem is, is one of my closest friends
but you know, you could always wait a little longer and see if you really love him, or if he makes a move.

Answer 8

nobody can fix your problem on yahoo answers..... but good luck with everything. maybe you can ask some of his guy friends if he has feelings for you, that way you can be more confidenent when you do decide to ask him out

Answer 9

You are not in love with him. How can you be if you haven't even gone out with him yet. Get a hold of yourself.

Answer 10

Find time alone with him, away from outside influences. Start slow and see where it goes.