Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

Yesterday I went out to see my boyfriend who I hadn't seen for months. We had a great time together. I absouletly loved being in his arms.


Time flew so quick and it was time to come back home. So he's again far away. I do miss him though.


Just wanted to share the good time I had yesterday.

2007-04-13 04:39:56 · 15 answers · asked by Bluebell S 1 in Singles & Dating

think they have a chance with a much younger woman? What woman in her 20's is going to want a divorced 50+ man with a herd of little kids and with half his income going to the ex for child support? What woman in her 40's or 50's whose children are grown or almost grown is going to want to start over with someone else's kids?

2007-04-13 04:36:54 · 16 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

What's the difference between loving someone and being "in love" with them? And how will you know that you're in love? Most people have told me that "you'll just know", but I don't understand that. I mean, what if you think you're in love, and you really aren't? Our hearts and minds can play tricks on us, you know.

2007-04-13 04:28:39 · 11 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my husbands ex-wife, I know this sounds unusal but I love everything about her! I can't see why he divorced her! Should I tell her?

2007-04-13 04:24:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay ok.....I have had a orgasm with him before but only when he goes down on me, never through intercourse. We are going through a rough patch and seeking counseling, so I feel it's time to be totally honest about everything. I think if I enjoyed the actual intercourse more, sex might be something I'd want a lot more often, but how do I tell him this without taking a shot to his ego?

2007-04-13 04:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if my husband doesn't want me to?
Is it ok to drink despite his wishes?

2007-04-13 04:21:37 · 33 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have remained friends with my ex since she ended things 3 mths ago.

The relationship was very good, we talked of moving in etc. On 2 occasions, totally out of the blue, she said she was unsure about us. The 1st time, within 3 hrs, she said to ignore it and was feeling down. The 2nd, she got upset and she said she felt she held me back.

When she ended things she was depressed, her Dr prescribed prozac & counselling. She took the meds but refused counselling, said she wasn't depressed & blamed the relationship, ending things. She has since told me she was depressed but it was coincidence.

She also has had:

- Anorexia & Bulimia as a teenager 10 years ago
- Self harmed as a teenager

- She had a 2 year relationship with a woman 4 yrs ago, despite saying she is not bisexual & has said she will never be with a woman again, and never had been before.

Was she just fed up with me? Was depression a factor?

Should I try and help or get her back? I do love her.

2007-04-13 04:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had times when I lost count, and was totally exhausted, but I've never come close to passing out

2007-04-13 04:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by svetlana 3 in Singles & Dating

which car would you have?

lets do an old car and a new one...

y'all know mine....have fun

2007-04-13 04:18:38 · 18 answers · asked by -------- 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Some people say fake praise of wife plus frequently spoken lies about domestic and social affairs make a marriage happy and sucessful.It is very difficult for me to understand.Please help................

2007-04-13 04:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know as far as a good relationship do size matter.

2007-04-13 04:17:45 · 38 answers · asked by bnyse2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I cannot possibly understand how it could be difference except maybe we'll have new appliances! The commitment is absolutely there, so it's not a 'you can just walk out' no, we can't. We made a commitment.

The ritual and public vows are just a symbolic thing that we're doing for our families who are tradional and can't get past their religious ideas and think that we're getting married in the eyes of god or some other bull **** and of course the party. We're in this 'til death whether it's made legal or not.

It makes no sense. Weddings are not magical, there is no supernatural force behind the vows and the psychology of it only works when you believe that the paper means anything or that divorce is an option! Hell, in our country it doesn't even mean tax, legal (like in the instance of a partners illness or death) or insurance benefits (we can get that living together and besides living together is traditional even biblical for some biblical cultures). Explain yourselves!

2007-04-13 04:15:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 8yrs and things have never been great. I have just tried to make him happy by giving in to what he wants. 5yr ago we both were injured in a bad accident and he promised he would change and be more involved. Not the case- he is the only child and very much about his parents. I have a great job and work all day, come home and do everything-house,yard,children's activities,etc. And he goes to his parent's 2 nights a wk to eat and do work there and every Sat is there and some Sundays. And now he wonders why I am so distant and bitter! I have fallen out of love and I am just there doing it all! All of this led me to open up to someone else and they tell me that I have become cold and independant, do not know what real love is like and that I had my kids to have unconditional love! I think they are right - but I know leaving will be hard because of kids. I love this person he gets it and says stay for kids, he wants me but is married to and is staying because of kids?????

2007-04-13 04:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by jenga4fun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what will people think its good money but will i be considered a slut

2007-04-13 04:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by amnicole89 2 in Weddings

for real love?or will love find us or we should look for it?But then everytime the person i met are just the same..........somehow there are people in their early twenties have found love and married but some wait for ages?how come?What is it like when you find real love the person you meet or it just doesn't exist to some people?if it does but there is no sign?could it be just our luck?

2007-04-13 04:09:07 · 4 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband left our marriage for another woman who he now lives with. I have custody of our son - he visits his father once a week and every other weekend. My ex put me through hell this past year with the lies and cheating but I never let my son see my anger or pain. I never say anything bad about his Dad and I even tell him it is okay to like the girlfriend. That was tough. I am moving on - slowly but surely. However, when my ex calls to talk to his son and our son does not want to talk my ex starts questioning me about how his day was, did he do anything exciting, etc. I don't want to talk to him. I contact him when I have to - when there is a decision to make or something important happens. I don't think I should have to touch base with him on a regular basis and fill him in on what he missed. He chose to leave and part of that decision was leaving his son. Am I wrong?

2007-04-13 03:57:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had sex with my bofriend on march 15 for the first time and i gave my virginity to him because im in love with him and he loves me we used a condom and everything and my period came on on march 19 but i wonder am i pregnant i know your supposed to miss a period and mine came on but im still kind of unsure and i just need closure that im not what should i do......

-signed: SCARED, LOST, AND IN LOVE

2007-04-13 03:55:17 · 26 answers · asked by alaysha f 1 in Singles & Dating

im curious 2 see mow my bf compares

xx

2007-04-13 03:52:23 · 20 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 in Singles & Dating

EVERY WOMEN I DATE IS MEAN TO ME AND THEY SAY IM UGLY AND SMEEL BAD

2007-04-13 03:45:45 · 24 answers · asked by Arshan 1 in Singles & Dating

and there is no reason either, they just refused

2007-04-13 03:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by lola in lala land... 2 in Weddings

wat should i do my boyfriend told me he oved me but i dont love him. we been going out for only two months and i dont now how to handel it. I really like him, but i kinda have filling 4 this other guy at meet. He plays basketball, soft ball, and football. All the sports I play, but I dont no cuz the guy that I am going out wit dont like sports and thats the only thing I dont like bout him. He tells me I need to quit some sports but if i do then i wont have nuthon else to do. He said I could spend time wit him but her is around me way to much. So PlZZZZZZZZZ Help me A am begging U PLZ!!!!!!!

2007-04-13 03:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by bballerbrit 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 03:36:31 · 29 answers · asked by barnaby_362003 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband get along very well but sometimes hes really rude to me on bed?i have no complains bt still i dont like the way he treats me sometimes.whats should i do?should i tell him to be gentle on me?should i talk to him?b/c if i talk to him i dont want him to think i have no power?help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-13 03:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend bought me a beautiful bracelet which cost a bit too much, my ex-husband saw it and he went out and bought me a ring to match it because he didn't like another guy buying me something better than him. my ex will call up my boyfriend and try and be friends with him because he wants to stay in my life, and he calls me up every day. sometimes i mind, and sometimes i see him like a friend. the only one for me is my boyfriend. what would you do? i like everything to be amicable but sometimes it's too much.

2007-04-13 03:30:15 · 30 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 03:28:15 · 28 answers · asked by lou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend has recently left her husband, and during his third visit has refused to return the child to the mother and has made motion to gain full custody. Lawyers won't give her a straight answer on whether or not she can remove her child from school as she has not yet been served papers. Can she take back her daughter without fear of being criminally charged at this point?

2007-04-13 03:21:16 · 15 answers · asked by b t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex had been together for 2 years before i drunkley slept with some1, she didnt find out. i drunkley kissed someone a few months later and she found out about that and we spent several months trying to regain the trust and we managed to just about gain trust again when one of her friends told her about my drunken night of passion and the trust was broken, we again spent a few more months trying to work things out, we still went on dates and kissed and did everything couple did but about 4months ago she got a new job and took her some place else, she then told me she didnt love me anymore and i still tried to make thing work but recenlty in past couple of days she told me that she has found someone else, she told me she wished i hadnt cheated beacuse she still deep down loved me and wish we could end up togther but she hadnt been happy in a few months and she was finally happy, what can i do? try and get her back? let her be wit someone else? move on? she's my everything.

2007-04-13 03:20:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's been trying to lose weight and asked me not to bring any sweets into the house, so I haven't for a LONG time.

He's upset that I didn't get him his favorite chocolate easter eggs. I got him a really nice card and wrote him a poem instead.

Anyways, on and on all day about the easter eggs. So, by the end of the night, I said you want an egg, here you go ... pulled out my used feminine product and chased him around the house. He was disgusted but laughing. I was laughing hysterically.

He is still complaining about his Easter eggs and the disgusting stunt that I pulled - it's been over a week - let it go already, right?

2007-04-13 03:19:01 · 18 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 03:18:16 · 30 answers · asked by James B 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the most atractive thing in a girl for a guy ? and how come all girls say its "personalitys" and all guys say "errrr...boobs?" best answer wil get 10 points !

2007-04-13 03:11:47 · 2 answers · asked by x.sxc.rachell.x 1 in Singles & Dating