i had sex with my bofriend on march 15 for the first time and i gave my virginity to him because im in love with him and he loves me we used a condom and everything and my period came on on march 19 but i wonder am i pregnant i know your supposed to miss a period and mine came on but im still kind of unsure and i just need closure that im not what should i do......
-signed: SCARED, LOST, AND IN LOVE
2007-04-13 03:55:17 · 26 answers · asked by alaysha f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A missed period is probably one of the more reliable signs of pregnancy. Although some women will experience implantation bleeding about the time of their period, it is usually lighter and/or shorter than their normal period. This is why you are asked for the first day of your last normal period. There are even a few women who will have period throughout their pregnancy, although this is rare, it does happen.
Although that can happen it is very likely that you are not pregnant and I pray that you are not. But if you are and you two are in love then I am sure that you will both support each other during this time. I hope you have told him that you are questioning whether or not you are. But to give you closure this is all I know. I hope the best for both of you and I am almost certain you are not. Good luck and I hope your relationship is wonderful. Also something else i noticed was you two had sex on my birthday. What a coincidence. Anyways I hope this is the closure you need. =]
2007-04-13 04:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that we all make mistakes. Calm down, even if you're pregnant it's not yet the end of the world for you. A baby maybe the greatest blessing in your life. Maybe God planned that because He wants you to learn from this experience. I understand that this is a very difficult situation you're in right now and what you need to do is pray. Tell God your worries, surrender your fears, just submit to Him. I will also be praying for your best. Whatever comes out of this worry you have right now, I know it will not change your life in a bad way if you will not let it but instead it can help you become the mature and responsible person you can be and still enjoy life. I am a teen myself and have been challenged by pressures, I know a lot of other teenagers who have gone through this and they did fine. So can you. Just believe that God is always there for you no matter what. God bless you. =)
2007-04-13 04:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condom's are 99% effective. As long as there wasn't a hole in it, you're very likely not to be pregnant. Periods are fickle, just like the women that have them.
P.S. Men don't think of virginity and sex the same way women do, so the back story won't matter much to the question if a male answers.
2007-04-13 04:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by christ_jewells11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you THINK you are pregnant. The classic, tell-tale signs are not there...you used a condom and had a period. Seems to me you are a little young in your thinking. Maybe you should hold off on having sex until you know what it is all about and you are prepared for IF you should become pregnant.
2007-04-13 04:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nubian Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you're just scared! Go buy a pregnancy test and check so you can get some peace of mind. You're probably not pregnant, since you've had your period.
Consider this: If you're this freaked out by the possibility of accidentally getting pregnant, why are you risking it?
2007-04-13 03:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, STOP!!! Are you ready to have a baby? Are you ready to have an abortion? Are you ready to deal with STD? Are you ready to deal with adult issues? Are you ready to put your dreams aside to raise a child? To begin with, you need to have a discussion with your mother about sex and your life goals. Yes, it seems like a tough subject, but it is better than to tell her you're pregnant. Mom's, rather have this conversation than the pregnant one. Next, you need to get on some sort of birth control and vaccinated to protect you from cervical cancer. This vaccination is only good before you are exposed to the virus. Finally, you need to obtain your education. Get your life started on the right road before you create a life. It is only fair thing for yourself and the child. In short, think about your life and where you want it to go and make it so.
2007-04-13 04:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless your boyfriend has some kind of "Supersperm" that can bust through latex that also changes your biology to allow you to have your period while pregnant, then I'd say it's safe to assume that you didn't get pregnant THIS time.
2007-04-13 04:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared yes, but you are not pregnant. Lost yes, because you don't know what you are doing. And finally, in live, No, you are far to young to even understand what love really is.
2007-04-13 04:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sperm which used to be nonetheless liquid got here in direct touch along with your genitalia, sure, the moisture within the sperm and to your genitalia can enable a real bold sperm to make its means north. However, the percentages aren't well. Possible, however no longer possible. Next time, make it the accountability of either one of you to maintain the condom on him till he is pulled thoroughly unfastened. And don't forget, condoms on my own don't present whole security.
2016-09-05 12:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by gonser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test to make sure. It doesn't sound like you are pregnant...but if you need closure...do the test
2007-04-13 04:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋