me and my husband get along very well but sometimes hes really rude to me on bed?i have no complains bt still i dont like the way he treats me sometimes.whats should i do?should i tell him to be gentle on me?should i talk to him?b/c if i talk to him i dont want him to think i have no power?help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-13 03:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course you should tell your husband how you feel!!
There's more power in expressing what you think and feel than to just take whatever he dishes out.
2007-04-13 03:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should talk to him. One thing I have learned about marriage and husbands is if you don't tell them straight out (only way they seem to understand) then nothing will ever change. If they don't know something is bothering you then how can they fix the problem. Good luck.
2007-04-13 03:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by MommyofTwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly would talk to him about it. If things happen and you aren't happy or he's insulting you, by talking to him and bringing things up, you ARE taking YOUR power back. That's not a bad thing either. If he gets mad or belittles you when bringing things up, then that's an entirely different issue. Fill me as things go on and I can still help you =) Good Luck!
2007-04-13 03:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude how? Does he call you names? Is he just too rough, hurting you, pulling your hair, etc.?
Look, it doesn't matter. Yes you should talk to him!!!
No one should have what is supposed to be pleasurable and the ultimate expression of your love turned into an occasion for pain or humiliation.
2007-04-13 03:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bob the Builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is rude to you in bed? Okay, yes talk to him. You should have said something the moment whatever it was happened!
2007-04-13 03:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by rude? you are too vague....If he's making you do something your uncomfortable doing ...communicate with him. you need to tell him your expectations but also be willing to hear his too, it's not all about you. but mostly you really need to be sharing this with him.
2007-04-13 03:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by K F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to knock that **** off or he won't be allowed back in your bed!
2007-04-13 04:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. he may not be aware his behavior is coming off as negetive to you.
2007-04-13 03:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think you enjoy it....you have to tell him that you didn't like it, and tell him exactly how and where to touch you. Tell him how much it turns you on when he touches you here and does this....
Men want to please the woman they love...appeal to his masculinity.
2007-04-13 03:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes trell him to more sensative...
2007-04-13 03:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋