i like this guy right well we dated once before and broke up because i got upset and said some things i didnt really mean and we did talk for the longest time and now were are talking again. but i still love him alot but i dont think he has the same feelings. so i guess my ? is how do i tell him that i love him still and i want a 2 chance
2007-04-13 06:56:47 · 24 answers · asked by amy lamb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just have to tell him everything that you feel...be completely honest!!! If you find it difficult you can also write a letter - this also gives you some time to reflect and really get everything down...when you speak it can sometimes be difficult to remember everything you want to say!
Best of Luck!!!!!***
2007-04-13 07:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking a big leap with this one! Even though you talked to him for a really long time, and everything just seemed fine, and you said that you do not think he has the same feelings as you do for him.
I would just try and stay friends, even though you two had a wonderful talk, maby that is what it just means to him a talk and nothing more.
If you are talking really well, with him as you say you are, then feel free to ask him your question about getting back with him, and see how he feels, at least this will put your mind at ease and you can stop asking yourself about the "what ifs"?
And if he wants to be more than friends, great, but if he wants to just be friends, then you did not lose anything, at least you got the answer you are looking for.
2007-04-13 14:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be open and candid about it. Be prepared for an answer that you may not like. If you place it out there and he is not going to see you that way again, you could loose his friendship too. Is your love for him strong enough to risk the new friendship. If it is, you have your answer, if you can't bare to loose what little you now get, then wait until he feels it too and makes the move on you. He will know how you feel if you can drop some suttle hints.
Good Luck
Tracylyn S
2007-04-13 14:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE or LIKE?
I think you are infatuated with him but is not love unless you really mean it and you are able to forgive after a fight!!
You are a bit confused on what you really want........talk to somone you trust about the situation once you know what you really want, go for it!! Advice is a way to get something done once you know what you want but you are not ready to take advice when you don't know what you want yourself!!
Good luck!!
2007-04-13 14:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hold back on the "love" word unless you had dated for a while before and had both expressed feelings of love to one another back then.
Perhaps if you simply went to him and apologized for the past and let him know you'd like to try again, if he feels the same way...then it's up to him.
2007-04-13 14:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a quiet spot so you and him can talk and explain to him that we made a good couple when we were together and we should not have par ten ways because of the things you have said you need to let him no that you did not mean it and apologize to him i no it takes allot to admit that but in order to see where he wants to be in your life and if it doesn't work u no you and him can still be good friends and from there who no he may start to see that he does want to be with you
Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2007-04-13 14:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Firstquarter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you still have feelings and you want to give the relationship a second chance. Hopefully, he feels the same and agrees to it.
2007-04-13 14:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi u just need to share ur feelings open up to him if he is a very good friend if u dont tell him he will never no how u feel!
its worth the shot! and u will regret it if u dont tell him so share with him and if he says he dont like u that way then u always can b friends
2007-04-13 14:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by bethany a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just go tell him that you want a second chance because you do not mean the things you said to him before.
2007-04-13 14:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of just talking, why don't you ask him out on a date. That way you will be able to tell for sure.
2007-04-13 13:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋