How many times SHOULD a woman have an orgasm for each session? When my wife have her orgasm, she will "withdraw" from the whole action, leaving me hanging...
I heard that many woman have multiple orgasms, but why is my wife satisfied with only one per session?
Does anyone else feel one is enough each time? I have no other experience other than with my wife. Help!
2007-04-13 06:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gilamonster 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When a woman has a real and true orgasm, her lips turn cold (because of blood rushing to other places...yeaaah)...so after she has one, if you think she might be faking...give her a nice long kiss and see how her lips feel.
2007-04-13 06:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific number of times a woman should have an orgasm. Some woman have multiple, some do not. Every woman is individual in that department. If she is satisfied with one, you should be to. You could bring up to her trying to help her achieve a second one in the same sexual session if you are curious, see what she thinks about it.
As far as the withdrawing, it can be a reaction for some woman I think after orgasm, kind of I think the best thing is for there to be open communication between you two. Learn about each other bodies, maybe she just needs a couple minutes before resuming and letting you finish....
2007-04-13 06:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by polarbearmom_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like shes really even having that first one. 10 bucks says she faking it. She probably has never had an orgasm and just doesnt know what it feels like. A LOT of women who don't have orgasms don't realize what the difference between having one and faking one is .So she fakes it to get you to stop. Not saying your bad at what you do, but take a close look at it and see where you can improve. Or better yet - ASK HER how you can improve. Counseling DEFINATELY sounds like a plan for your future.
2007-04-13 06:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by odlaw77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each woman reacts differently when she reaches the big O.. some women yes have multuple and others only get one. Perhaps you should sit down with your wife and talk to her about this. See if there is any underlining factors there.
2007-04-13 06:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' doesn't matter how many only how good it is I could care less if I had 1 or ten as long as i get up but my hubby makes it his duty to make sure I get mine and I do the same. I would never leave him hanging that is just foul and if your wifey knew any better she would know that what she won't do somebody else will.
2007-04-13 06:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk with your wife and maybe a counselor that she "withdraws" from the whole thing after one. I mean one is plenty for some women and I don't think that is unusual but to be "done" when she is "done" seems wrong.
2007-04-13 06:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by michy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women think that after the first "explosion" they can't do it anymore. They get the "don't touch me syndrome". Your wife just has to let go. The second and third are the best.
After the first one, your wife probably tenses up if you try to touch her. She has to relax. it will happen again.
2007-04-13 06:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW... One is great- but many are wonderful. I don't get her, but yeah, one is enough. Sometimes women don't even have one, but that isn't always because of the guy. Some chicks just take a lot to get off... True story!
2007-04-13 06:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's faking it cause the definition of orgasm is
tha climax of sexually pleasure
people don't back out from pleasure
or maybe she can't take it
2007-04-13 06:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has always been enough for me, even with amazing partners once it happens I'm done.
2007-04-13 06:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋