i just started dating my girlfriend two weeks ago. i got her flowers on monday, but today is our two week anaverary so should i get her flowers or not.
2007-04-13 05:54:38 · 16 answers · asked by marathoncook 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? No don't get any flowers it's not that serious.
2007-04-13 05:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Adapted_For_The_Screen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. First of all, you already got her flowers once already. Getting her more flowers this soon is a big mistake for several reasons. She may then start to expect flowers often from you, so later when you don't give her flowers for a few months she may get upset or think something is wrong. So you'll pretty much have to continue giving her flowers very often, which she may get sick of, but which will certainly get old and less meaningful towards her - in which case if you actually want to do something special for her you'll need something more than flowers to make it meaningful. This will lead you to a situation later in your relationship where you have a fight with her or something and now simply giving her flowers and apologizing won't have enough weight to get you off the hook since you give her flowers all the time already.
She may also think you are moving too fast or in love with her already or something like that if you give her flowers again this early in your relationship. I don't know many people who celebrate a two week relationship anyways.
In my opinion flowers are a cheap and easy thing to show a girl that you care on a special occassion a few times per year, or to get you off the hook after doing something that pissed her off - don't dig yourself a hole by making flowers a common thing to her.
2007-04-13 06:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Common Sense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't overdo with the flowers.
And what the hey with the 2 weeks anniversary flowers? If you keep getting her flowers every 2 weeks, the flowers you eventually give her will no longer be as special or meaningful.
Just ask my wife! Nowadays, she asks me for the money I am about to spend on flowers so that she can go and buy that new shoe she wanted.
Improvise and put in some variety.
2007-04-13 06:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gilamonster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you plan to get flowers every 2 weeks? If you get flowers all the time it won't be as special. Once a month is better than every 2 weeks Romeo.
2007-04-13 05:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you want to get her something, get her something. But try not to be repetitive. Also, you don't want to smother her or move too fast. It depends on the type of relationship y'all have. If you have been really good friends for a long time, before y'all dated, then it's different. If your whole relationship is new, go slow. You don't want to scare her. Maybe you could get her ONE flower (like a single rose or daisy) and a candy bar (a king-sized HERSHEY'S). Keep it simple, after all, it's just been two weeks.
2007-04-13 06:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by mookow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, gifts don't necessarily need to be given at every special occasion. By all means, buy her flowers if you want to. But there are other things that can be done that show you care but aren't "gifts". Take her to the movies, or go to a rental place and let her pick the movie she wants to see. No grumbling if it's a chick flick. Make dinner for her. Or if you can't cook, pick up food for her and serve it to her in a special way. (For example, arrange McDonalds food nicely on the good china and serve the soda in a wine glass). If it's something that makes her feel special, it's a good "gift".
2007-04-13 06:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, don't get the flowers. It's not really that serious, just make sure you mention something about the two week anniversary :]
2007-04-13 06:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by shannon_yo7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get her flowers again,you should wait a little longer by giving her something else.And when you decide to give her flowers make them one that she loves,not roses.Roses are very very bad and cheesy.Give her a flower that she loves.For instance she might like tulips alot or even lilies.Just make shure when you decide what to get her, make sure it is at the right time.You dont want to her to think that you base your gift giving only on flowers.
2007-04-13 06:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by gymnastbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt a dozen purple roses if u won't be able to locate out her renowned flower in time plus verify to be attentive to her renowned coloration of plant existence to boot if u can with out spoiling the marvel. Then that night take her out.
2016-10-22 01:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but I'd say get her something else. Maybe make her a CD with some of the songs you think she'd like.. or chocolate.. or a teddy bear.. or tickets to something.. or go for ice cream.
2007-04-13 05:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋