Its been a month that I have been feeling really sad and even though I have a lot of hope deep down inside I have lost it on the surface. I am acting like a drama queen to get attention from my boyfriend and by doing that I am making him fall out of love with me. i love spending time with him and his family and we have fun but sometimes I feel like I have lost my identity and I am his girlfriend not me, I feel like I am living in his world and I don’t have my own life. It is my own fault for feeling thins way because I never see my friends because I am spending so much time with him. I need to find my own life again, but how? I am scared of being alone and doing stuff with strangers that used to be my friends. help
2007-04-13 08:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should serve you own needs first. i'm not saying to put your bf on the back burner, but if your unhappy now, chances are that this feeling is only going to get stronger, or it might disappear all together for a while and then manifest it'self later, only bigger and badder. At this point you still have a choice to attempt to define yourself within the relationship. it might be easy or not. but if you continue to wear the perfect GF hat all the time then then your not being faithful to yourself or him.
2007-04-13 08:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK good. You have recognized and defined the problem so you are on your way to solving it. Drama queen is no good and you realize that. You need to get your own life and start by going through the motions of being alone and 'doing stuff with strangers' Strangers arent bad and you will soon be friends. Take a class, volunteer somewhere, do something for someone else and soon you will find happiness and satisfaction.
2007-04-13 15:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl yeah you may wanna spend some time wit your bf but everybody needs some friends to talk to n if you dont have any female friends then your life wont b the same i know these kind of things if you want you can email me at mltn_msty@yahoo.com n we can talk some more k good luck n i hope i helped
2007-04-13 15:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by soyelnegrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the answer. Get re acquainted with your friends. Never lose friends over a relationship, especially good friends. tell them you apologize for ignoring them and want to be close again.
2007-04-13 15:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you but yourself. You know the problem, now get the guts to handle it!
2007-04-13 15:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a coke and a smoke.
2007-04-13 15:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋