I have been dating this guy for about 5 months and all of the sudden he says that he doesn't know what he wants. Relationship? No relationship? He calls and says he misses me and still.....he doesn't know what he wants.
What the heck does this mean? What should I do?
2007-04-13 09:45:14 · 13 answers · asked by aquestforaheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Means he wants his cake and eat it too...
it doesn't take a guy 5 months to realize that he only want to be with you...LOL
I waited a year for a guy to know that it didn't go so well....
Guys know...they just try to prolong committment as long as they can or as long as you let them...
I think you should say fine...then call me when you do know....
Walk away...let him fight for you....then you'll see how much he cares about you....if your there for him...and let him do his own thing....he'll take advantage of you....
trust me...I know....
2007-04-13 09:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go find a guy who knows what he wants because if this guy can't figure it out after being with you for 5 months, then either he's trying to let you down "easily" or he's just confused. Give him some space if you want to stay with him, but most guys suck at telling a girl they don't want to be in a relationship anymore. Sounds like that's what he's trying to say.
2007-04-13 16:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does, he just doesn't want to tell you.
Men always know what they want, it's just what they want often will get them into trouble with you because they know you don't want that. What you should do is back-off, give him a little more space and see what happens. Of course you don't have to do this, you could just dump him instead. You could also keep things the way they are going and drive him away too. Cut your contact in half, but let him know that you want to see him and love him. Don't let him know what you are doing, just watch and decide.
You are in charge of your life, what happens is up to you.
2007-04-13 16:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's exactly what my ex boyfriend did. we went out for 5 months too and he told me he missed me. eventually though we went our seperate ways. i think really the only thing you can do is just give him space to figure things out. dont try to pressure him into having a relationship with you too soon. If it's meant to be, then it will be. just tell him to call you whenever he figures it out. but like everybody else said, dont wait too long for him!
2007-04-13 16:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by one_thing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he is going to string you along until he figure out what he wants. But if he has to think about it so much, chances are that he really doesn't want to be with you, but is only keeping you around as a matter of convenience until he finds someone he DOES want.
2007-04-13 16:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. If he wanted to be with you he would be. This wishy-washy crap is his way of saying he doesn't want to be with you. You deserve better anyway!!! Now go find a real MAN!!!
2007-04-13 16:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HECK? he dosent know what he wants? what the heck is his problem? is he trying to tell you that he dosent know if he likes you? you need to dump him before he dumps you. if he dosent know what he wants then he dosent deserve you. go find yourself a guy who konws what he wants and what he wants is you.
2007-04-13 16:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by angie n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he means he thinks about having sex with other girls ... he likes you, he enjoys having sex with you, but he wishes you wouldnt ask questions that you dont want to know the answers to, and doesnt want to be tied down to you
accept him for who he is, or move on ... you 2 are too young to get too serious anyway
2007-04-13 16:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you want, and than tell him to call you when he knows what he wants.
2007-04-13 16:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kind of guys should check them self's first but honey don't worry his going crazy about you.
2007-04-13 16:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by u'r friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋