There's this girl who moved in across town less than a year ago who went to my church. At first I thought she was kind of weird but as time went by I started to like her as a friend and started hanging out with her. She let me in and I became one of her close friends but my sister didn't like that. I told her I was wrong and that I reallly wanted to be friends with this girl but my sister didn't trust me. She started talking bad about me to my friend and I know my friend started to believe her cause she started slowly excluding me and treating me less and less like a friend. Lstely she has been very nice to me and is treating me like a really close friend again, but my sis is super-obsessive and overprotective of her because she is my sister's bff. my sis is trying to boss me around, telling me what i am and what i'm not allowed to do, like, for instance, I'm 'not allowed' to put my arm 'round my friend or call her cuz only bff's allowed 2 do that. what can i do to fix things?
2007-04-13 09:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by MK4JCGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm totally not gay, btw
2007-04-13 10:03:50 · update #1
and i'm a really nice person, really friendly and inviting and patient
2007-04-13 10:04:32 · update #2
and no my sister is not the boss of me- ever
2007-04-13 10:05:07 · update #3
Wow... how old are the three of you???
sounds pretty silly to me. assuming that you girls are still pretty young.. I'm just gonna tell you that things things happen.
The most you could do is to tell your friend that you Do want to continure being friends.. and ensure that the bad things your sis is saying are not true.
If she still wont be friends... she's not the kind of person you should want in your life.
Good luck hun
EJ
2007-04-13 09:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by ErinJean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to ignore your sister and talk to that girl you like so much. do not call her and tell her you want to talk to her alone, because most than likely she will call your sister to tell her if she know what you want to talk about.
Go in person (surprise her in person) then you talk to her and tell her everything and I mean everything about the whole situation. If she likes you and you like her than it was just a coincidence that she is your sisters best friend.
Go for it champ, there is no law against dating your sisters best-friend, so take advantage. At the end your sister has to accept the facts of life.
Good Luck!
2007-04-13 09:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by helenmgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to step away. Its your life you could do whatever you want as long as its nothing bad. She can't be telling you not to put your arm around anyone, thats not bad whats gonna happen the girl, is she gonna get pregnant! no! shes crazy! just tell her she can't tell you what to do in a stern voice.
~if i were your sis i wouldn't care as long as its nothing close to something bad~
~love ya like a friend`♥
2007-04-13 10:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to ur sis
2007-04-13 09:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is when you do what you think is right...tell your sister to bug off and that you are capable of making decision yourself and if you are wrong you will learn from your mistakes but she's not always going to be around so you have to tell her you have to learn things on your own
2007-04-13 09:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is sis the boss?
2007-04-13 09:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what you did. if it was anything to do with another girl or something VERY unlikely but if she loves you and your truly sorry and you explain to her why and stuff then you might be forgiven. hope this helps but not alot of info given.
2016-05-19 17:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could tell your sis that you trust her with any thing.
2007-04-13 09:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, do you like her????? if you do then consider becoming her bf. if not, then dont be afraid of what your sister says. you control your life, she doesnt.
2007-04-13 09:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by mmrooster7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get over it and you will go wateveroyu want she has no right to say that stuff
2007-04-13 09:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋