I love my boyfriend with all my heart, he's the only thing in my life, that I live for, my family is cruel, and I been treated on 10 times before , and I dont need no more heart ache, I'm a loveing kind hearted person, I'm just think dowen on myself, and my boyfriend is my life, and I bought him a cell phone , and twice he had girls, phone numbers in his cell, and we argued about it, he said it was just the friends I met at a party, but I dont really know them, I really got hurt , when the time, a girl tiffny called him, and I wanted to slap him, but he saids that it wont happen again, and the 2nd time , I found three new girls, I told him it will be over, if it happends again, then he cried , and he saids it wont and he loves me, and what's to marry me and have kids one day , but we fight sometimes cause he saids, that I should trust him, cause he trust me, but sometime I dont know when he tells me the truth, I love him, but I think he's treating on me, cause he's been busy lately.
2007-04-13 10:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cook for him, clean for him, massages. and there for him in hard and good times, and I'm faithful.
2007-04-13 10:39:24 · update #1
I mean cheating on me.
2007-04-13 10:41:03 · update #2
I just want someone to be faithful , and love only me, is that wrong?
2007-04-13 10:44:44 · update #3
We been for 2 years, and in college.
2007-04-13 10:45:25 · update #4
i do not think that he is cheating on u. he is probably faithful. guys can have girl friends (notice i put a HUGE space in between) but htey should also have guy friends. check that on his phone. if he doesn't have any, hes cheating. anyway, when u yell at him for that, UR THE ONE being strict. u take away part of his freedom. Any man that cries for u though girl, is worth ur love and time. keep him
2007-04-13 10:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by <3leopards 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that if it's happend that many times! You need to take a break from him. You do love him, I can tell! But maybe it's because you think that you're just going to get mistreated if you put yourself out there, kinda like how your family does. But sweetheart, what you don't realize is that you're being mistreated right now, beign with him. You should be with a guy that you don't have to worry about things like that. I'm sure he loves you too, but I think he's not thinking and only wants to have fun. Take a break from him.. and in a month see where you guys stand.
(and by take a break I don't mean break up, stay in touch, but be able to see and look at other guys)
and if he moves on within a week.. then you will KNOW he wasn't right for you!
Don't worry it'll all work out, and if this doesnt.. God will find you someone else; who DOESNT cheat on you.. <3
2007-04-13 17:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by emma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in search for someone to love you b/c obviously you dont think your family does. I went through the same thing girl. Yeah, they love using that "i've been busy" line. Well while he's busy you need to be busy thinking about leaving him. Of course he's gonna cry, look what you do for him...mine didn't cry but his attitude changed. Not good enough though, there are still girls. When he's out "busy" I get slicker than him and talk to other guys. I don't give my number out, I call blocked and before you know it i'm sleepin good. Well that only works for a while. Eventually you are going to have to leave and I say do it now b4 you get hurt more. These males are a trip out here in the world, especially the ones who have a kind-hearted gf.. I had to find out the hard way. Yeah I felt like he treated me better than my family sometimes, but he knows you feel that way, so he's gonna play his game as long as you let him. Yeah, you should trust him...ha ha ha.. why so he can do what he does and not have to argue about it....whatever the hell ever. Leave his ***, tell him u can't do it anymore...tell him you understand that he loves you, but you don't want to get hurt or even be unhealthy b/c of this. one of my ex's got ulcers b/c he used to try to work it out and deal with **** he didn't have to deal with. My stomach started hurting at night when I would wake up and my current bf still wasn't home by 4am. Leave his *** now!!
2007-04-13 17:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by I AM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys have been going out for a long time it seems that you should know when hes lying to you or not. to me i think he is but its up to you. dont let yoursleft be giuded by oyur feelings. i understand that you love him but let me tell you...i loved and still love me x but he cheated on me and i forgave me but once he did it again it was over.
2007-04-13 17:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Blacky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to yourself. love isn't enough. Besides never listen to a person's words. Watch their actions, because if you did just that with this guy, you'd see what I see.
2007-04-13 17:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him out and hope for the best
2007-04-13 17:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by hihi227 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a joke. Lose him.
2007-04-13 17:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋