This little boy likes me, he is in the 4th grade and I am in the
6th grade.I can't go with him because well you should know
the reason.I want to tell him I dont like him but I also don't want to hurt his feelings,he is cute and all but he is too young.
Please help me out.
thanks.
2007-04-13 14:51:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just sit him down and tell him that your flattered that he thinks of you that way, and tell him your just not comfortable with dating someone who is younger then you.
2007-04-13 14:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I am going to assume that because you are 12 or 13 and he is 10 or 11 is the reason your asking this question. But if you were 20 and he was 18 it wouldn't be an issue. However if you just don't like him because he's not your type that's different. The easiest way is just be honest it will hurt him for awhile but he'll get over it and move on.
2007-04-13 14:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Steven M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a major crush on you.no matter what you say, it will hurt his feelings. All you can do is let him know that you're going off to grade 7 next year...and he's going into grade 5. Tell him he's a great guy and you've enjoyed knowing him but that he should start looking at girls in his same grade group and point out a couple that you think he could get to know better~
2007-04-13 14:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating leads to marraige and at that stage neither of u should be even thinking about it.
plus how many people are married to each other that are the same age anyway
Just tell him that he's not ur type and im sure he'll find another "girlfriend" or playmate anyway
2007-04-13 15:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by help master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only enable him be attentive to you opt for to stay pals and your busy with non secular issues like specific pioneering, your the daughter of an elder and additionally you are able to desire to maintain your acceptance sparkling and additionally you like the missionary provider interior the Dominican Republic. a youthful woman with all this going for her should not be entering into love ideal now or plan to get married regardless of each and everything your purely a 9th grader.If he's sluggish i don't think of he could shop up including your very non secular existence.
2016-10-22 02:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just explain to him that at that age, two years is a long time! in high school, when you're in year ten and he's in year eight, it won't seem as much. just explain that to him, even if you won't ever like him. theres a 99% chance that by the time hes in year eight, hell be so over you lol
2007-04-13 15:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if some boy or girl gets their feelings hurt it's not your fault,it's theirs bc they are his feelings, not yours and he is the one who has put them out there to someone(this time to you maybe..you didn't ask or tell him to, right? right. ) if you understand what I'm saying.
just tell him you don't like him that way and to leave you alone, He has to learn this lesson right now or he will think he can bully his way into anyones life when he wants and maybe he will respect you and others more and better when you tell him in plain english you dont like him that way and to leave you alone. ..this is the way you have to do with boys....you'll see
2007-04-13 15:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 2 years older than him
you are young
well give him signs that you dont like him. u can let someone down easy without hurting their feelings...
2007-04-13 14:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight up...that he is too young. In a nice manner though
2007-04-13 14:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not looking for a bf and that you just want to be friends.
2007-04-13 15:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by ricah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋