big wusses. What's up with that?
2007-04-13 17:52:16 · 20 answers · asked by Psychgirl35 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men do pursue.
You must be sending strong "I'm totally not interested" signals.
Pursuing is "predatory", hey the man is the hunter. So think in terms of lions, they only chase when they think there is a reasonable chance of success. Why waste energy on uncatchable prey.
So if you want to be caught but with a "chase". You need to make yourself available, if you are the zebra that's aways 1000 yards distant and keeps moving away, then you will always be left alone.
You need to be the zebra that's close enough to be caught but fit enough to run!
You need to seriously analyze your behavior and signals. Have a friend you trust watch you when you are around men that you are interested in. Garner helpful criticism.
And please all women stop sending mixed signals:
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=6295&menuid=6&lid=428
2007-04-13 18:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would we bother. We can buy an appliance to wash our dishes, hire a maid to do our laundry, porn is abdundantly available on the net and when that isn't enough, it is simply cheaper to visit a prostitute than endure the whole dating process. Maybe if women weren't such gold-diggers, cooked and cleaned like they were meant to, then they would still be worth pursuing.
2016-04-01 01:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With women having equal rights now it is possible for them to pursue men! Don't they say that women are the new men now. It would make it easier on a guy if women would let them know anyways if they like him. If they act like they don't like me then I think they don't. If they act like they do then maybe they do. So why play head games?
2007-04-13 18:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by i_put_down_the_toilet_seat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change your social circle, and don't chase them. It doesn't make you "some kind of royalty"...
There are too many high-dollar, Aeropostale-wearing, manicured, pretty boys out there who don't know a thing about being a man. All these women's rights have worked wonders as far as education and employment, but it seems to have sissified all the men. Too afraid of offending women to make the phone call, open a door, pay for the damn dinner, and actually pursue a woman...
2007-04-13 17:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by robin0408 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Times have changed. In Granpa's day , you would have to fight the other fellas, then grab her by the hair and pull her into the cave. Now if a man is too aggressive, he gets to go too court.
In Grandpa's day, women were trained to be submissive. and if you got past her father, your were sure that she would say 'yes' Now , a woman will call you a freaking pervert and reach for the pepper spray.
2007-04-13 18:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You all want to be pursued to feed your ego, make you feel special. But the fact is, most of you like to flirt but don't want to take it any further. Its obvious its all about the attention. You really don't want a steady..you want to have guys hang on you and go away.
2007-04-13 18:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we still exist but sometimes we like to be chased back as well. I know what I got is worth it so why should I keep chasing someone when I can have others chasing me instead. Never chase after something you cannot possibly catch!
-NmD!
2007-04-13 18:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men still pursue women but there are lots of skags and hags and wildibeasts to sort through
2007-04-13 17:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Saint Lucipher 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we're just done with chasing. Too many gold diggers and women that will stab you in the back
2007-04-13 17:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by krusty477 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, been on the chase for a long time . gets tiresome but worth it in the end
2007-04-13 17:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by outg426 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋