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what type of behaviors/ characteristics/ traits do married women who have the potential to cheat, or do cheat, have that faithful married women dont????

2007-04-13 14:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by tim t 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Tim, I think that women ( most of us ) are taught to nurture and love and grow ( all things). We are emotional beings and it take a strong woman to think instead of feeling. Take for one. A woman in an abusive relationship. Mainly she stays hoping and Feeling as if he will change and soon it become a mental thing. When a woman begin to love a man and he neglect to give her love and respect then it is easy for other men to pick up on a woman in need of love and attention, that is why some fall prey to extra marital affairs. Some women are strong enough to hold out and get what they want or just walk out of the loveless relationship. Then you just just have sleazy women that will bed any man that they think will give them a cheap thrill. I had a c-worker like that. She have a good husband, but while he is out on the road working to pay for the beautiful home he put her in, she bring different men in the house, but she say she loved her husband and will never leave him. I told my husband and the same goes for women, any person that will stare at men in the presence of their partner will take it a step farther. Just watching a person, the way they talk, the way they act and the type of women in their family could tell you allot about a person.

2007-04-13 14:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0 0

I can say this with almost 99 percent certanty. Faithful Married Women have men that meet their emotional needs. If a man doesn't meet the emotional needs of a woman, she will look elsewhere for that need to be met.

The one caveat is that there are some CRAZY Biznitches that will do it because they are crazy in the head. maybe they were sexually abused or something...Another trait may be that they are dishonest, closed off, and secretive. They may not be cheating, but it leaves an area in her life where she can cheat on you.

So if you are looking for a woman that will potentially provide that for you, you should first look at their past and then look very hard at yourself and your ability to fulfill those emotional needs.

2007-04-13 14:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by TL 2 · 1 0

I'm sorry, but if it were so easy to tell then we would all be married to the faithful women and the cheaters would be out in the cold. There is no way to tell if a woman has the potential to cheat or not.

2007-04-13 14:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1 1

There are none. Being faithful is a choice that every married person makes. I was married for 17 years to a woman that I'd have been perfectly confident in wagering any amount of money, at any odds, that she would never cheat. I'd have lost. She had my total trust, and used that to her own ends.

2007-04-14 07:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Faithful women generally have a devoted husband and a good marriage.

Unfaithful women tend to have lazy, neglectful husbands and poor marital relations.

Obviously some women are just selfish bitches and will cheat even on a good man. These can be spotted because they seem shallow, superficial and have no meaning in their lives. They seem soul-less and fake when you talk to them. They are probably with you for your money or something.

Normally if a man spends enough time by his wife's side and pays her enough attention the marriage will probably be fine. If he makes her feel like sh*t about herself she may eventually look elsewhere for her self-esteem and her fun.

2007-04-13 14:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Tim, Tim, Tim......you need to look for the values when you are looking toward choosing a mate. There are always red flags if you choose to look for them when you are dating. If you led with your heart only and not done your homework, well, anything is possible. If you are already married and asking this question, I am sorry for you. If you are not, start looking for a woman with good character and moral values and begin asking more questions as you date. Everyone you meet has the ability to tell you either in words or with their behavior who they are and will be. Take closer looks.

2007-04-13 14:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0 0

Cheating is primarily a question of character. If a woman is honest, loving, committed to her marriage, self-controlled, and considerate of others, she is not likely to cheat.

Of course, any woman could allow herself to get in a situation where her emotions take over and rule her head if she is not careful. Carrying on an affair over time, however, takes selfishness, planning, and deception.

A woman who is respected, appreciated, and well loved by her husband will find it incredibly difficult to cheat unless she is especially self-absorbed and thoughtless. Generally, women are wired to protect relationships that they value.

2007-04-13 14:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0 0

husbands (or wives) who are shut down emotionally and physically and cannot or will not give his wife (or her husband) unconditional love, support and understanding. cheating is a symptom of a bad relationship, not the cause. so if somebody's cheating, 99% of the time it's bc somebody is not pulling their weight in the relationship and the other looks elsewhere for what is missing.

2007-04-13 14:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by just curious 5 · 2 0

being lonely - being around a man/men that give you a lot of attention. If you aren't getting it from your husband, and someone else is giving it, it makes cheating possible, even when you never thought you would do that.

2007-04-13 14:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by abby 3 · 1 0

They get bored easily, have no real friends, live with a man who does not satisfy them mentally and/or physically, and they do not respect their mate, and like the thrill of doing dangerous things.

2007-04-13 14:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1 0

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