i ahve this crush i am 31 he is 31 we are friends and he has a girlfriend who i can honestly say is not very good to him she messes around with other guys at the bar and hangs on them.well last week i decided that i would just try to move on and have fun. and that is what i did. i danced with other guys and i could have taken almost any guy home in the bar with me. not saying i am hot but when there is only 4 females in the bar it is easy. well he was working and he girlfriend left because i think they had a fight not to sure. but he was smiling at me and even messed up what he was doing when i was dancing with a guy i asked him jokinly if he was distracted and he replayed yes. the ? is should i just give up and be just his friend or should i try to get him. a long time ago when he was single i told him i liked him and it didn't hurt our friendship he told me i was to classy and a saint at the time he was getting over a 13 year relationship and having sex with alot of females
2007-04-13 21:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i stopped talking to him because i didn't want to go crasy watching him do that to himself and helping him screen the crazys as he put it. he would have me tell him if the girl was crazy or not before he would use them. now he has changed he is not doing that anymore. i sometimes think it is a hopeless cause us getting together then he does something to make me think that maybe he does like me and he is just as scared as i am about it. please help me to decide if i should just stay in the friend zone or try to be with him
2007-04-13 21:24:39 · update #1
Let the chips fall as they may in life. Dont break up a relationship to be with someone theirs nothin more tacky in the world and it wont last long. Let him find out his girlfriend is dirt on his own and just be there if its ment to be it will be. trust me these things in life kinda have a way of working themselves out u just be u.
2007-04-13 21:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so you knew each other a while already but nothing much has happened.
you should just say to him
his girlfriend isn't right for him and if he dumps her you're interested.
I think that will put it out there without you taking control because it's still up to him to make it happen.
2007-04-14 04:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just give him your number and say if he gets tired of his girlfriend hanging all over other men he should give you a call. Simple and direct.
2007-04-14 04:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Krankiboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you instead of his girlfriend, don't you think he would?
2007-04-14 04:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep this friends only relationship....
2007-04-14 04:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really 31?
2007-04-14 04:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋