Not just slightly. This is my best friend. These feelings have grown over a long time. I left my girlfriend of 4 years because I couldn't feel anything for her anymore. All I think about is this woman. She kinda knows, but not to the extent. We talk 3-4 hours a day and hang at least twice a week. I don't know what to do anymore. I have never made any advances on her and dont think she would ever change her life around.
2007-04-13 19:45:58 · 12 answers · asked by charles h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just live with it. you can't change her feelings for her husband. but you can attempt to change your feelings. don't stop being friends with her, but go looking for someone you think your "crush" is like. then try to feel for them. but unless her husband divorces her or something else, you just have to live through it.
2007-04-13 19:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think she married the other guy? do you think she married him to make you jealous? no she married him because she loves him, she thinks you are a great friend but thats it. you will never be nothing more. why cant girls have guy friends, because guys try to make a move on the girls even though they have a man. guy always think the girl is into them just because they give them a lil attention, hey maybe she feels sorry for you , thats why she stays your friend. i say you let her have a happy life and dont ruin her marriage by telling her you ahve feelings for her. you will ruin everything for her and your self, after you tell her she will tell her hubby and she wont be able to hang out with you anymore . goodl uck.
2007-04-14 03:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without telling her exactly how u feel, ask her whats up? try to get the answer youre looking for, if its not happening, try to let go. i know when youre really in love, you cant jus, "let go ", if this is the case, youre probably gonna have to come right out and tell her exactly whats goin on. youll be opening yourself up, but it may be worth it, it might even be the only way. if it does come to this, youll need to give her some time to figure how shes feeling, cause it will take a lot of thinking for her to leave her husb for you, but when she does, youll know, its real, and probably gonna last forever!!! hey, good luck, hey, if its love, congratulations, not everyone gets that feeling, hold onto it!, do everything to keep it, and dont give up! funny thing bout people... they want to be with people who love them. hint, love her more than he does...
2007-04-14 03:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by selina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she is married and you don't believe she would change her life around, you should find a way to come to grips with the fact that she can't be yours. One thing to also consider is her husband and how unfair it would be to him to intrude upon their marriage based on feelings from an outside source (you). There are many other women out there, you just can't have this one.
2007-04-14 02:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm it would be a tough time for you. I personally think you should accept it and move on. I don't think you want to ruin her marriage life, do you? I think you would get more hurt if you go to the next step to her. Just being a good friend to her is a good way to handle this situation I guess.
2007-04-14 02:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by MelonHead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think she would change her life around for you, you gotta move on. You should tell her how you feel. She might surprise you and tell you she 's in love with you too. If she would leave her husband for you, then she's your future. If she can't do that to her husband, leave her alone. It can only be one way. Let her decide.
2007-04-14 02:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dangerous waters...u said she kinda knos..tell her how u feel abt her...probably u both can work something out...she needs to kno how u feel abt her and i belive she will be the only one to help u ...also tht u want wht u cant have ...someone who is unavailable is sooo very alluring...but if the feelings are not mutual tht means u have to move on..and to find out if she has the same feelings..u will have to confide in her..thts wht i think atleast...let the other person be aware of u wht and how u feel..otherwise u will forever obsess over wht ifs and wht nots...and regret it too ..why u never said it to her..
2007-04-14 02:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by ash-h-butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn my feeling off and find someone else who is single.
WHATEVERRRRRRRRRR!!!
It doesn't matter, she might not love you, she probably
roll her eyes at you, wish you stop talking to her 3 hours a day.
2007-04-14 02:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could go on with this friendship...but be careful this situation is could turn in to something bad ...! I know what restricted love means....it happening to me too!!!! Good luck!
2007-04-14 02:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To stop yourself from getting hurt,i would say cancel all contact with her.
2007-04-14 02:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋