I have been liking this guy for a long time (5 years) and he has liked this other girl for lieka long time too. I feels o heartbroken and he always tells me he likes her!! I think I should stop liking him? Well, should I?
2007-04-16 17:14:15 · 25 answers · asked by Cutie with a booty! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sucks, I wouldn't waste my time or emotions on someone who is that into someone else. You are so much better off moving on to someone who WILL give you the time of day.
The best of luck,
Sarah
2007-04-16 17:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by McLovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop liking him. The truth is that there are so many fish in the sea. You see, if he hasnt tried to make a move on you, than he is not interested in you. If you really like him, maybe you should tell him how you feel. Dont continue to tip toe around the situation, you may let a great opportunity pass you by, like I did once. Talk to him, you have nothing to loose. Okay.
2007-04-17 00:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like unrequited love. He doesn't feel for you what you feel for him, and it doesn't sound like he's ever led you to believe otherwise. If he isn't romantically interested in you, that doesn't mean you aren't worthy of romantic love, it just means that you're wasting a lot of time trying to make the wrong person love you (which can't be forced).
It doesn't mean he's a bad person or that you two can't be friends, but your expectations have been unrealistic. That's ok, there's somebody better out there for you. Go find him!
Good luck
2007-04-17 00:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop chasing after him I know it will be hard to let him go but u are just torturing urself he is taunting u weather he knows it or not and don't let urself get so distressed some day ur prince will come the right guy at the right time and u will be SO happy u left ol' whats his name in the past!!
~~GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES~~
2007-04-17 00:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Springsteen - Account #2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically you can't control your feelings, but it might help you to go out with other guys. If he's known you for this long and still hasn't noticed you, then he probably won't ever like you in that way. Who knows, sometimes a guy won't notice you until you date someone else, so I suppose it's possible that he might get attracted to you, but I wouldn't count on it. Go out with another guy and see what happens.
2007-04-17 00:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by lovelydragonprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girlie, you can't help how you feel. but if this dude hasn't noticed you after all this time, resign yourself to being just his friend. Once he gets to know you as a person, he may decide that he likes you like that. But, if he doesn't, then its his loss. I wish you the best of luck and a happy ending!
2007-04-17 00:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes some one else than yeah!
If you guys arent like serious together than maybe you should talk to him about getting serious.
But if hes already telling you that he likes another girl, he probably doesnt want to be with you, thats a good way to get rid of someone yah know!
2007-04-17 00:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess my old advise didn't work for you? o well if u really liked him for that long (5 years) than i say why quit now? hang on strong and wait for that perfect moment where you tell him how u feel i dont know when that will be but u'll know- good luck again, Tommy
2007-04-17 21:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by tdanh504 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is telling you that he likes this other girl then why in the hell are you still with him.girl let him go and find someone that will love you and only you.this guy is not worth spitting on.
2007-04-17 00:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by happy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% definitely. Obsessing over someone isn't healthy. Heartbreak is also part of life, allows people to learn from their experiences.
2007-04-17 00:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by BM0027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋