Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

I reallyy like this girl, and I wanted to ask her out last semester, and i didn't. But now i see her in the hallway like 1 or two times at school, and i don't even knows who i am, its kinda a funny pathetic feeling if you know what i mean. But i think it would be kind of wierd to just go up to her in the hallway and ask her out, now that she dosen't have any classes with me, but it kinda makes me sad to just see her and not do anything, and starting a random conversation seems a little wierd too... we are both sophomores in High School. Please don't say I am too young...

Thanks a TON for any help I can get with this!!!

2007-04-16 16:16:26 · 1 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Singles & Dating

My son's father & I have known each other for 17 yrs - of those we spent 8 w/ just each other. We have had other relationships but always seem to come back to each other. After the last time, I had enough - he told me to find someone to treat me how I wanted to be treated so I did. Now I'm engaged. I love my son's father w/ all my heart but I'm not "in love" w/ him yet I miss our friendship. Is it possible to be w/ someone else & still remain friends w/ my son's father?

2007-04-16 16:15:48 · 36 answers · asked by momatendofrope 5 in Friends

recovering alcholic

2007-04-16 16:14:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

make grilfriend not mad at you for calling her to late on her house phone

2007-04-16 16:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A boy in my class who said was my best friend let me down. He supposingly love me but did not want me to tell me but start doing things like hugging and molesting me. After days i felt very uncomfortable and stop talking to him. Now i forgave him but i don't have the same faith in him. Do you think i should have forgive him and should beleive again in him? Why?

2007-04-16 16:12:13 · 6 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Friends

Well heres the soap opera that is my life. My b/f and i broke up for a short while a few months ago. In that time he slept with his ex g/f. She got pregnant. He and i got back together before anybody knew she was pregnant. When he found out she was pregnant, he decided he should try to make things work with her. A few weeks back he came over to talk, it became very emotional, and we ended up sleeping together. We both knew it was wrong, we agreed to never put ourselves in that position again. Although I've been on the pill forever, I'm pregnant as well. I feel like, they've been together for the past 3 months and he chose her. I feel like I should just not tell him, and go it alone. I'm 30 and financially stable. I feel like if i tell him, he'll think I did it on purpose, which i did not. It's a fluke that it even happened. Should I tell him?
They just bought a house together...

2007-04-16 16:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by MsKnowItAll Reborn 4 in Singles & Dating

my wedding is in 2 months and i'm on the pill, my fiance and i are planning on having kids 2 or 3 years after we're married just b/c we wanna enjoy the beginning of marriage and we're not ready for kids

2007-04-16 16:08:50 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep finding myself chasing a guy and then once he likes me I no longer like him. And then once he thinks that I'm not interested anymore and he gets a girlfriend I want him again. And begin the chase once again. And then once he likes me yet again, I no longer want him. And theres only so many times that can happen, then guys just...label you as a tease. I really want to stop this. I've tried just stopping...and forcing myself to stay interested. But I can't. And when I think about it I want to scream. Because even just the thought of being in a relationship where a guy actually likes me....freaks me out for some reason. I've read that it has to do with fathers that haven't exactly been fathers. My dad abandoned me when I was 11. Does that have anything to do with it?? Has this happened to any of you guys?? Thanks in advance

2007-04-16 16:08:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has a deep seated hatred with her mother.She didn't get a very good treatment when she was young. Her mom would physically hurt her whenever she commits mistakes,specially when she was in highschool. She said her mom would always tell other mothers how she would sneak out of the house,exaggerate it like she ran away with some guy,when she's actually just going to her bestfriends house. She would go their and spend all day their to avaoid her mom nagging her just about anything. I was her bestfriend,she would always come to my house which is just few blocks away from hers. She would cry to me,and open up about how unfair she's treated by her mom.One time she won this costume contest in school and she was so excited to show her mom but her mom ended up nagging her to death because she took time changing her clothes from the girls locker room.The list of bad memories of her mom would go on.Till now the mom is not very good to her,she continue to carry all the pain.

2007-04-16 16:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by Carine3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, we have been really tight for many years. we went to school together our whole lives and started to be really close in highschool. after we got out and went to college it was really hard for me to see her with other guys. We now live and work within minutes of eachother and we are able to see each other daily. we are very physical and flirty but its not enough for me. she dosent show intereasted in me in that way. but i havent asked. i want her to be happy so i tell myself that if she wanted it, then it will happen. she always says that we will wed when we are older but its kinda a joke. Ive never told her how i felt bc obviouly i dont want to lose the friendship but its tearing me apart. i want, need and have to tell her how i feel but when, where and WHAT do i say. damn i love this chick and its killing me.....

2007-04-16 16:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i asked this girl to prom and she said i dont know i might be going with someone else. what does this mean? and what should i do? We have known each other for a long time but are more of aquaintences then good friends i asked one of her really good friends if the girl was going to prom with anybody and her friend said no she wasnt and that i should defintly ask her. I asked her last wenseday and I havnt talked to her since then  Since she is shy i didnt want to do anything big or public idk i just thought she'd perfer i not so i just asked her "if she would like to go to prom with me? and she said idk i might be going with someone else i said thats cool if you want to think about it and let me know and she said yea she would. sooooo im just a guy so i need a girl to interpret this for me. she is really beautiful but shy but she isnt the type thats got a ton of guys after her and prom is only a month away exactly o and we're both juniors. so what does this mean? and what should i do?I don't want her to go with me if she doesnt want to and just thinks she is doing me a favor or somethin like that wouldn’t be right and I don’t want that. I asked her Wednesday and today is Monday but I don’t really see her that much at school we don’t have ne classes together…sooo idk what should I do and its really too late for me to find somebody else to go with so don’t tell me that…..

2007-04-16 16:05:21 · 3 answers · asked by greg d 1 in Singles & Dating

Say something good about your MOm.

2007-04-16 16:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family

everytime i break up with my boyfriend i want it to be 4 good, i dont wanna go back to him. but 4 some reason he will call my cell and leave me soo many voice messages crying and stuff and idk how to end it. i always go back to him and im sick of it, and when i dont talk to him , he will go cry 2 his younger sister and then she will come and talk me into talking to him and going back out with him. idk what to do anymore.

2007-04-16 16:01:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

want to ask my friend out. just want to go out as friends, so its not really a date. we are in mid-twenties

what are some INEXPENSIVE activities that we can do that are fun? also an activity that will give us a good chance to talk and interact with each other

10 points for the most creative and inexpensive answer

2007-04-16 16:00:16 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

Okay.. uhm theres this girl in my history class that i like and want to be friends with. How do i start up a conversation?

2007-04-16 15:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by aznguyy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that i dated off and on since I was 17. We lost touch for a while and when we met back up again he had a 1 year old son that he had full custody of. We got back toghether but it did not work out because of his work schedule and his child. Now I have a nine month old son (and his dad is a loser) my friend wants to get back together and get married. The only thing is he is training to be a federal agent and he might have to relocate to Chicago. What should I do? Should I marry him and relocate?

2007-04-16 15:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just moved to a new school and gotten out of a 2 year relationship and still havent gotten over it. Well at my new school I told my friend that I thought that this one girl that is in our class is cute. Later that day he tells the girls best friend and it goes around. The girl doesnt talk to me but looks at me sometimes. Its been a week now. What should I do?

2007-04-16 15:55:02 · 3 answers · asked by ADRN 1 in Singles & Dating

my sis was talking to this guy on myspace last night, named "blake" and then she called him last night..then today she was getting ready so i asked if she was leaving and shes all yea i'm going on a blind date..then i said "with that guy you know off of myspace huh" but she said nooo. about 10 min later i heard her talking on the phone and she said "blakke r u therE" and "meet me at 8:10"...so she is really meeting that guy off the internet & she just left.. should i let my mom know about this? or just ignore it?

2007-04-16 15:54:24 · 55 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family

I fell for my best friend. It didn't work out. We stayed best friends. He got back with his ex. I was cool with that. Then we started breaking the rules. He told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. He said to give him time and that he only wanted me. We hung out everyday all day with the exception of work and sleep. We were perfect. Just as soon as things were as good as possible things went wrong. My cousin went to his house one night to talk to him. He wasn't there. It turns out that he was with the girl he said he didn't want. I told him I knew the truth. I am crushed. He thinks we should still be best friends. This isn't the first time he has hurt me with her. He keeps saying that I promised him we would always be best friends, but is he really my friend? It's hard!!! We were lovers like the in movies. We took pride in learning about each other. I was his spice girl and he was my chicken nugget face. Now I am his fool and he is my heartbreaker. Should we be friends?

2007-04-16 15:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 15:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by SHORT -SHORT 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has a bf and he really likes her but she doesnt really like him. Now he is also my friend. Ive told her to just end it but she wont. Do i tell the guy the truth or leave them alone?

2007-04-16 15:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 15:46:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well...lets c...
i dont go out as much anymore...i spend most of my time in my room playing my guitar and on the internet
i've lost the interest in sports, whenever someone invites me...i don feel like going out as much.
i still have a sad feeling of my mother leaving us
my family now has drifted apart...i rarely see my sister since she spends most of her time with bf and my father gets really mad at that...to which leads to yelling and makes me very uncomfortable...to where i go and spend my time at the track to run and get rid of my anger...

i still have this feeling of un happiness...i sit here just thinking...whats missing...i dont feel right...i start thinking about these things time to time during the week...
but whenever i can i go to my aunts house or grandfathers...theres no problems that i have to listen to there...they seem as if they have perfect lives but i kno they dont since we always heped them out whenever we could but those days are over and i'm the only

2007-04-16 15:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family

Did you apologize for it, or just leave things as they were? And what do you think will come of it?

2007-04-16 15:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by princessmeltdown 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

the wedding invitations when both our parents are helping us by pay for the wedding~
his and mine(parents) are together!

2007-04-16 15:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by ang925 3 in Weddings

my friend is todally ok with me likeing her ex boyfriend and he asked me out and i said idk because i needed to talk to her....but idk i feel weird doing anything with him.....but I LOVE HIM and he loves me to and my friend encoureges me to do stuff with him.....i need some advice should i or not?? and what should we do i hung out with him at my neigbors house that they are building that is empty and we had fun and did stuff....what do i do?

2007-04-16 15:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by LilS [ LOGANS BABE :D ] 1 in Singles & Dating

for instance, this guy (a father and his son a police officer) he refuses to have anything to do with his father because he has a drinking problem. he tries to call up his son to talk about a hockey game and he just totally shuts him out.
what gives? isn't family suppose to be there for you no matter what? i think he is uncaring and should be more understanding..

2007-04-16 15:40:48 · 23 answers · asked by Kath 1 in Family

I know I want to save myself for someone very special. I want to marry someone who did the same. Buuut now that I'm heading off to college I didn't realize how hard it was going to be. for example on saturday a girl wanted it from in the elevator...

then i was with another girl the same night and i did NOTHING...she all of a sudden jumped on me and even though we kept our clothes on we did all the moves you would do naked while having sex...

So...how I can keep my virginity? It seems impossible...

2007-04-16 15:40:39 · 48 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guy i thought i was going to be with decides to get his own room well everyone goes to the concert and as the night goes on i get pretty drunk and end up spending the night with one of the other guys and now i feel really guilty the guy i was going to be with explained that he was feeling really stressed and just wanteda room by himself so now i feel guiltier i didn't plan on sleeping with this other guy it just happened what should i do?

2007-04-16 15:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by blues girl 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends are driving me crazy. they've been my friends for a very long time, but have turned recently and started acting fake and ignoring me. when they do this, my immediate reaction is to ignore them right back, or get very moody, but i know this isn't solving anything. any tips on how to not lash out? they've made the last four months hell for me, and i can't trust them anymore. how do i hold my tongue?
thanks so much!

2007-04-16 15:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends