2007-04-16 15:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by SHORT -SHORT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump his sorry behind and find someone a little kinder, who appreciates you for who you are!!
LOSE THIS GUY!!
2007-04-16 15:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably need to realize that this person has some problems with anger, and probably feels unsettled and upset about life.
maybe he does love you, but he certainly doesn't know how to treat others, if he is angry all the time and speaks to you in a disrespectful way.
if you want to try and work things out with this person before giving up, let them know you have noticed something is bothering them. ask them what you can do to make things better between the two of you? tell them that you care and you would like to help make things better.
this might get the person to start thinking, and he might possibly realize he isn't being very kind or respectful.
perhaps he needs support and care? maybe therapy?
the best you can do is try.
i hope it works out for you.
you know, you don't have to put up with this type of treatment. if you try to help and the person doesn't want to change, then perhaps it's time to move on.
2007-04-16 15:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on where you are in teh relationship.... first off - if its a new relationshipo - id say let it go - he probably never loved you to begin with - if on the other hand like my situatiuon its been many yrs ( 15 here) and now they are doing it - they have a sickness- perhaps they got into drinking or gambling - depression or maybe psycosis - then id say ( as long as you do not feel endangered - if you feel in dnager RUN ) attempt an intervention with his family toward him - see if you can get him to go in and get some help. if he absolutely wont get help you need to get away and build your own life - perhpas yur leaving would give him a wake up call and maybe he would gt help. good luck.
2007-04-16 17:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by bummed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a mediator to help with this. Or someone you both can trust and be with you at the same time and be there to hear what is being said and what is being done when you interact with thiis person.
You will find it might be something so silly. Or have them IM me and I can see what's going through thier mind.
2007-04-16 15:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by abigbadwolf4sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, don't walk away. We don't deserve to be around people with bad attitudes. Make yourself happy first and then you will find someone special.
2007-04-16 15:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. Find yourself someone else who will express their love for you in a way that you find favorable.
2007-04-16 15:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by peluchitagonzalez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your spouse/boyfriend you should end the relationship. Good luck
2007-04-16 15:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob. well i talked to him but now i think we bout to break up so i really dont know. sorry=(
2007-04-16 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ NO3Mi ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short- dont waste it on people who make you feel bad.
2007-04-16 15:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away
2007-04-16 15:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋