My friend has a bf and he really likes her but she doesnt really like him. Now he is also my friend. Ive told her to just end it but she wont. Do i tell the guy the truth or leave them alone?
2007-04-16 15:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth. If you want a friend to do that for you, then do it for him. If not, then don't.
2007-04-16 15:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you just anwered my question for guys only! lol it's no big deal. I think that you should just leave it alone. The worst thing that you could do is get in the middle of it. You could end up being blamed for something that you didn't do. Good Luck
2007-04-16 15:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the truth, that you want to steal her BF, that you are a creep and can't be trusted?
Why don't you back off and give them a chance instead of trying to give them the shaft.
2007-04-16 15:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone or you could end up losing your friend
2007-04-16 15:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is you close friend and you care about it and are willing to tell him on a selfless act then yes tell him the truth, but do not do it all for selfish reasons.
2007-04-16 15:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by J. K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should first ask your friend if she wouldn't mind if you talked to him about their relationship and if she says it's okay then tell him the truth he deserves to know from a direct source. before he hears it from the grapvine and it's the wrong story. hope this helps! just do what you feel is right. good luckers! <3
2007-04-16 15:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ada-Broadway-Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has absolutely NOTHING to do with you.
her attitiude and body language will eventually show through. She cannot live a lie for ever. She should live the lie and the pain as long as she wishes to.
2007-04-16 15:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by bak2deefuture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. For all you know, the girl might be lying that she doesn't like this guy, which in fact, she loves him to death!
2007-04-16 15:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Drama Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks, direct him to speak with her, they are both adults, they need to communicate (if they are teenagers, it's still good practice to communicate).
If he hasn't asked you, don't butt in. I understand your concern as a friend, but everyone has to learn his or her own way. Let them figure it out together. Maybe you don't know everything about the way she feels or about what he'd want to know.
It's their "relationship" not a community relationship.
2007-04-16 15:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda none of ur bizness....jus let the chips fall where they may...ud jus be creating drama for urself and u dont wanna lose 2 friends in 1 shot....leave it be and things will work out for the better =] guarenteed
2007-04-16 15:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by effinCUNTagious™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋