my friend is todally ok with me likeing her ex boyfriend and he asked me out and i said idk because i needed to talk to her....but idk i feel weird doing anything with him.....but I LOVE HIM and he loves me to and my friend encoureges me to do stuff with him.....i need some advice should i or not?? and what should we do i hung out with him at my neigbors house that they are building that is empty and we had fun and did stuff....what do i do?
2007-04-16 15:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by LilS [ LOGANS BABE :D ] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell, you can't even put an actual English sentence together. They are able to do that in the third grade. Where do you fall in that scale. Yes you really do need advise.........
2007-04-16 15:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..Hello...It sounds to me as though you already made up your mind. If you have already done stuff with the guy in question, you are past the point of "should or shouldn't I?" If you had waited: I would suggest that you make sure your "friend" is really OK, or is she just testing your loyalty? Regardless, as time goes by the importance of these things will change. Now is the best time to build a solid code of moral standards...do the right thing....good luck...be happy!
2007-04-16 22:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by XRAY-SPECS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend might be saying sure go for it but once she actually sees the two of you together her story might change and she might view you as well..a slut. But if your feelings for this guy is as strong as you say they are and vice versa then I say go for it. Just be willing to lose a friend over it If your not careful.
2007-04-16 22:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'v been through it but it was the totally different. I was the best friend and my friend went out with my ex and it really made me feel leftout and mad. You can go out with him but only until you finally see how your friend feels! Chelsea
2007-04-16 23:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say go for it, but be careful of your friend. had this same exact thing happen to me basically. she claimed she was over him but never was and then made us look like bad people..so i say go for it girl 8) and if she tries to pull anything don't even listen and stick to your guns and tell her that she said it was ok..no matter what!
2007-04-16 22:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by sugarhigh01013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue dating her ex. As long as there are no hard feelings then it's okay.
2007-04-16 22:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Diana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will most likely ruin your friendship!!!!!
She might be just saying ok or she thinks she is ok with it.
DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!
Beware - the forbidden fruit is always desirable and tempting!!!!!
If you value your friendship with this person, I wouldn't even think about it!!!
2007-04-16 22:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO-DON'T DO IT!! Big mistake. Didn't you ever abide by the rule that you don't date your friend's ex? No matter what.
2007-04-16 22:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by blondietatt04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok how old are you hunn?
if your a teen prolly doesnt matter eveyrone shares **** buddies., lol
hell if your old you share sex buddies if you di dnt tie the knot!
go at it!!!!
have fun doing it!!!
& never regret it!
2007-04-16 22:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her ex
2007-04-16 22:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by TheEmoQueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋