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Hey I was reading some of the answers that I got and thought I should say a bit more about the situation ! She is 27 I am 28 and He is 37 He stole her right out of highschool when she was only 19 and she did have a bit of family trouble growing up , She told me that at one time he was all she had ! But we get along great my family likes her and she likes them ( Unlike some of his ) I have this feeling that she is codependant on him as maybe a father figure ( he is old enough ) lol and maybe that has something to do with her going back to him ?? she told me that we have a passion between us that she had never felt before ! Everyone that she knows pretty much told her that she is making a bad decision but she just bucks it and says that she has to do this because she feels that it might be the last time that she can put herself first ! I just don't know why if two ppl love eachother and are having a baby like we are why she wouldn't want to try to have a healthy relationship ??

2007-04-16 19:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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A healthy relationship is when both people are in love with each other completely. She is going back to the ex, although she is having your baby. This alone speaks volume of how she feels. Now, just maybe she is confused and is co-dependent on him because of her past. Sorry, I don't buy the father figure. What she has said about putting herself first makes me think she still loves the ex, she may have some love for you, but the love seems stronger for the ex. Just give her time without any pressure and if she loves you she will come back.

2007-04-20 15:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0 0

The answer she gave you is the one that I would listen to you if I were you. Quote "she feels that it might be the last time that she can put herself first!" For her reasons she must believe it is best for her to be with the gentleman in question. Possibly a more stable relationship. Passion doesn't always make for a happy relationship.

2007-04-16 19:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by H 2 · 0 0

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