hard on cause he says its like I can't get in...he swears by this, and it usually happens after having sex a few hours prior.
Also is it possible that a man can be to sore from having too much sex?
He says this too and yes we do, do it alot. But I have never heard of this, mind you my ex was crappy in the bedroom.
Seriously, are those real things that can happen to a man?
Im 26 and I had a kid so I find it hard to believe I could be too tight for him!
But he swears I am.
2007-04-16 20:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
btw he is 38.
2007-04-16 20:08:26 · update #1
Alsocan the fact that he is pretty big down there have anything to do with it, Ihave never had a guy as big as him...and damn, what a treat.
Could I be too small for him, cause when he gets in, it hurts ALOT!
2007-04-16 20:13:02 · update #2
The vagina is a muscle and it expands and contracts with the "size" of whatever you put inside. You just have to be careful, go slow, and use lubrication when you have sex.
Another possible reason is swelling of the vagina and surrounding structures after sex. Since you've said in previous posts that you like it rough, that seems like the culprit. Swelling happens in response to injury of tissue. It doesn't mean it's "wrong" or "bad"...but rough sex can cause the symptoms you describe.
Yes, both of you can be sore after too much sex...
2007-04-19 18:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having had a child does not automatically mean looser.
Just like you can regain a tight tummy, so the vaginal muscles can make a complete recovery also. Some women have to work at this and some just regain it easy.
As for being too tight, any mature woman should be able to accomodate all but the most extreme of men. Make sure you are using lube.
This might be an issue you want to see a physician about.
2007-04-16 21:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After having a kid I wouldn't think so, to be honest I would think that its for some other reason.. because if I was to be honest, guys are walking-hormones and they really cant ever get enough without a reason.. but YES, it is very possible to be too sore to have sex, especially if you are doing it alot. Pardon me for my blunt words but its quite possible he has blue balls from over-actively having sex and lack of semen.. and oh boy that can hurt!
2007-04-16 20:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lee D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not possible for a woman to be too tight. All men expierence Erectile dysfunction after too much sex. And yes it is true that men can get sore from too much sex...so can women...in fact women can get an infection from too much sex.
2007-04-16 22:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possible but not likely. you say its a few hours after sex. if hes old enough maybe he cant get it up so much. and yes i have been sore.
2007-04-16 20:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered abstaining? I think you two will be happier by excluding mating from the equation. Then you can form a deeper, more spiritial relationship that isnt shallow and physical. You don't even enjoy physical anyway!
2007-04-16 22:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Abstinence_Education 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
use good lubrication.. spend lot of time in foreplay and itwould help if he were to stretch u first with his fingers than his penis
2007-04-16 20:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after having a kid i wouldnt think so to be honest with you on this matter. in my opion?
2007-04-16 20:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone should come over and give you a second opinion.
2007-04-16 20:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KY or any other lubricant should help
You can't be too tight!
2007-04-17 06:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋