She is not really fat i just try to get her to lose some pounds. She is 5.4-5.5 126pounds. I told her i wanted her to be around 115. I am working on my weight and she blows me off when i ask her if she wants to work out.
2007-04-16 22:55:49 · 42 answers · asked by alrazod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look i know i am not mr. perfect or w/e and i do love her its just i am 6'0 155 and i been trying so hard to gain weight and she know i have been and she called me skinny and i work on that to make her happy but she does not want to make me happy.
2007-04-16 23:21:18 · update #1
Id shut up before you get in trouble. 126 pounds is nothing. Its good to promote exercise, but the way youre going about it, i think your in for more than your bargaining for..
2007-04-16 22:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chris W 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do, don't call her 'fat'. That is just a recipe for a smack in the chops. Especially because 126 pounds could in no conceivable way be considered fat.
Your opinions on her weight are your own, but if she's happy with her weight, then it's not really your place to say anything. I think asking her if she wants to work out with you is ok, but if she says no, leave it at that, and don't go on about it.
This all seems a little shallow to me. If she doesn't think she needs to lose weight, then leave the girl alone. Think yourself lucky you have a girl who isn't obsessed with her weight.
2007-04-16 23:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Betty Pidgeon 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope
You got
Fat (x2)
Cause if you got
Really fat, fat, fat
You just might want to see me come back
I hope
You got
Fat
I don't care
How heavy or how skinny
Just gimme
Something to love
A little extra weight would never look no nicer on nobody else but you
And i could always use a little bit more
To hold on to
And if i get a fright in the middle
Of the ***
ht i'll cling to you
so I hope
You got
Fat
2007-04-16 22:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nehru 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no.You should love her for who she is. you should be telling her that she is beautiful and sexy not fat. I have a question for you. why did you go out with her in the first place if you think she is fat? all that matters is whats on the inside not that outside.If you want to lose weight then go ahead but you have to stop calling her fat.I am 5'4 and i weigh 60kg and my boyfriend don't care he loves me for me and for who i am on the inside.One other thing how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot and she was calling you fat? and ask yourself why did you fall in love with her.
2007-04-16 23:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by happy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay to call her fat! Speak to her honestly but not harshly and hints like working out don't work either. tell her that she is a beautifull girl but needs to start looking after her health, she may feel shot down but will hopefully realise that you have a point! good luck - touchy subject!
2007-04-16 23:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lolla D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not fat you should accept her for who she is Work on your own body issues and if she wants to exercise with you she will But if you tell her to lose weight you are only hurting her feeling.Do not call her fat
2007-04-16 23:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by chameleon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Calling her fat won't get her to lose weight. Besides, thats not fat. Maybe if you were nicer about it she'd want to work out with you. But if you loved her, you would be fine with how much she weighs. She's not over weight so whats the problem?
2007-04-16 23:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mekana 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie,come on now.You know that is wrong!Odds are she is happy with her weight,as long as she is happy you should be happy too!She is right around the proper weight for her height.Who wants to be so thin you can count every rib in her body anyway?You need to apologise to her for your actions.This is why so many are pushed to anorexia and bulimia,trying to please their partners.This is a ridiculous question,and you know that it isnt ok.You arent going to get justification for your actions here.You need to go give your girlfriend a hug and apologise to her.If you cannot love her for her then you do not deserve her!Have a good morning hun,good luck.
2007-04-16 23:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You obviously like her for who she is, so dont try and change her, cos it always comes back on you! Fat is not a good choice of words to use! Think of explaining yourself better, before you even mention a word that means fat!
2007-04-16 23:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Tamika W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, she's right where she needs to be. What made you come up with the number 115? She's too tall to weigh that little.
The answer to your question is: No! People don't often understand that verbal abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse; you just can't see the scars.
Sandy
2007-04-16 22:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...kinda a bit mean but it depends. You're trying to help her by asking her to work out with you and be supportive so in some ways if it will make her healthier it may be a good thing...still no-one likes to be told by their bf that he wants them to lose a few pounds. Once she gets over the rejection of it she might come around.
2007-04-16 22:59:32 · answer #11 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋