i'm in a relationship with a man who is divorced his wife about a year ago , who can i treat him so that he underestands that not all girls are the same , and he can be relaxed and be loved with me and that i'm not thinking about marrige &...
2007-04-16 22:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Prove to him that you are worthy. Be patient ....don't try to rush him. Good things come to those who wait. He needs to be able to trust you completely and until he is able to that he will remain scared. Actions speak louder then words.
2007-04-16 23:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI you dont treat him any different than you already are,,becouse if you try to be some thing that you are not by treating him different then you are going to push him away.
Carry on with him as the person you were when you met couse that is the person he fell for.
He will in time relax with the person you are and not the person you try to be,TRUST in a partener is what he is lacking through no fault ov yours so all i can say is work on it to.gether and always talk over any doubts,,,dont let them build up.
GOOD LUCK FOR THE FUTURE
PHYLLIS
2007-04-16 22:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by davo_degg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure him that you care, whenever you can.Of course with out being possesive! Show him by telling, cooking him a romantic dinner, buy him a little gift everynow and then! Just make sure he knows that you are in for the long run!
2007-04-16 22:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tamika W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him.. he has lots to learn. If you are the first girl/woman since the divorce.. then move on..he is not ready yet.
2007-04-16 22:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by answers to A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... it is natural that he is nursing old wounds....
Don't be too pushy.... give him some space....let him make the move... When he is ready he will....
Just be close to him... and comfort him when ever possible.. give him a listening ear to all his issue.. or let him cry out over your shoulder so to speak... Let him open up..
Be patience... he needs to be sure.... and regain his confidence in love...
take care..
2007-04-16 22:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by trymejames 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just treat him with the love and respect that you feel he deserves. Time will heal his wounds, you can't.
2007-04-16 22:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you may want to go to school to learn to spell and take some English classes in order to form comprehensive sentences. this may change his mind about women.
2007-04-16 22:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by sook y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him time.. Past experiences are not easily forgotten.. Be there for him
2007-04-16 22:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just not ready to move on yet
2007-04-16 22:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it; let him recover in his own time.
2007-04-16 22:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋