2007-04-16 22:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd want to know why the child told the lie.
2007-04-16 22:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was the lie about the father? If not, then mother should not stop father's visits. If the child needs to be grounded for a lie, she should also let the father know the situation and the grounding should continue during the visit with the father.
2007-04-16 22:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell them to give me and my child a lie detector test to prove that I was not lying and my child was. I would even pay for both tests just to be able to prove that I was not lying. I would also go to counceling sessions with my son/daughter and have the other parent there. To find out why exactly the child told the lie. Maybe the councelor could get the reason out of the child.
2007-04-16 23:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I can't figure out why you haven't brought this to your administrator's attention!? Why would you threaten a second grader with missing recess for this?! Think about this: #1 A child wants to go home with you (the teacher) instead of going to her real home and #2 implies a certain level of neglect (mom "doesn't care"). These are not the things that 2nd graders usually say and/or do. Are you really a teacher? Haven't you ever had any training in dealing with neglect/abuse?
2016-05-17 07:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in he same predicament, but I am the father in my case. I have been dealing with the police and Department of Social Services. My son stated `` Mom told (JW) ex-wifes boyfriend rapes her``. There is nothing I can do about that. My son now wants to live with me. I have filed a contempt of court because of the lack of visitation.If the judge wants to he can fine my ex $500, 1 month-5 months jail, and a make-up of visitation.Also, I found an internet site CHILDREN`S RIGHT COUNCIL. The U.S. Supreme court states that under the Fourteenth Amendment of the Constitution both parents have the right to joint physical custody and the state in which you live has to prove the other parent none fit. Also, The most important is , it is a childs right to both parents. Please check out the site CHILDREN`S RIGHTS COUNCIL.
2007-04-17 04:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by jeffrey k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anything I'd want the truth. I'd want to know why the lie was told and if it was my child find a way to see them again. I don't have any children because I'm still in school but I know that when I do have them it would be nearly impossible not to see them.
2007-04-16 22:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Children don't lie. It's usually the father that's lying. I'd believe the child.
2007-04-16 23:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sue M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's okay if it's only for a disciplinary action but if it will take forever, that's unfair. maybe a maxI'mum of a month will do. but if im a parent, ill use other means for grounding my child not hitting those personal things especially not seeing with her father that is her right._c",)
2007-04-16 22:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by pRiNcEss_c",) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One parent cannot single-handedly prevent visitation from the non-custodial parent. Take the issue back to court if she persists. Your court-ordered visitation agreement is still valid and she is in contempt of court.
2007-04-16 22:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All three sit down together and get the truth..
2007-04-16 22:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋