i have been seeing a girl on and off for 2 years, she has moved to england twice to to live with me but simply cant settle here, she has a good job in holland and a great life, i have the same here, a great job and a very charmed life!
i cant live with without her and she feels the same.
now she wants me to move there, she will take of everything and i realy want to move there, i dont speak the language and i not sure what i will do as a job, should i move and give everything up? or should i stay and end it?
2007-04-16 22:33:06 · 14 answers · asked by damien t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u shud give it a try, she tried, now if u really want to b with her, u shdu move, u have a gr88 job here, u will get job there too, mattter of few months wen u wil have a gr88 life there too, infact much beter than this, cuz u wil b with her
2007-04-16 22:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by ria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't live without each other, then you'll HAVE to go, or you'll die!!
But no, seriously..... if you really love her and really want to go, then do it. You can always move back to the UK if it doesn't work out, and hopefully your friends and family will still be here.
You will pick up the language eventually and I'm sure she'd help you.
It may be that once you get there, you miss home too much an d the classic thing happens - she's got her life and her friends there, you feel left out and lonely, and you grow apart. If that happened, at least you'd know that you gave it a shot and you could move on without wondering "what if..."
xx Emmie
2007-04-16 22:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go 4 it and move 2 b with ur girlfriend thats the most beautiful gesture that u can show that u will move 2 b with the 1 u love, it will b hard 2 ajust 2 a new country but as long as u have each other then nothing else matters.Good luck!!!!!
2007-04-16 22:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should!! Holland is a great country with very nice and friendly people, you would get used to! And come on, Holland is near, it is not that you will not see your beloved country anymore. And Dutch is a very easy language, I can speak Dutch very well, it fits with English because it's a Germanic language as well. You would learn very fast. Go and try to make the best of it! Even marijuana is legal in that country! What a Paradise it can be!!
2007-04-16 22:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have to move there straight away for permenitant why not do what she has done for you and just move up there for a bit to see you can settle if you feel you can settle there then think about makeing it perminatnt it is a lovely place as well so it may be really nice brake away from england for ya.
2007-04-16 22:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by sparkeling beauty. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't live without her, then you have to go.
However, if she couldn't settle here, then you need to look at how you would do things differently to make things better for you over there.
Holland is a lovely country, and the language is not dissimilar to English or German, so there's definitely potential for you to be happy there
2007-04-20 02:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jugular 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* What do you feel is right ? Try to give it a shot , You only live once and you said you cant live without her , so go ahead and give it a go , What is there to loose and besides if you dont try you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been if you had tried it so go ahead Good Luck *
2007-04-16 22:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you LOVE her? Where do you see yourselves in 5 years?Are you willing to sacrifice your lifestyle? Would she do the same? I think you should give it a try for about a year. Let her know what your plans are.
2007-04-16 22:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you go and it doesn't work out then you can come back, if you don't go then you could regret it for the rest of your life. My motto is Do something you may regret instead of regretting not doing it.
2007-04-16 22:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by VV 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not - she's done it twice and tried, you shud do the same or she shud just dump yr sorry ar.e because you don't care about her enough!!.
2007-04-16 22:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋