What would you do?

Question

I reallly like this girl a lot, and she knows I like her. However I haven't told her yet. We hung out today, and she was really fun/funny to hang out with. However I just get the feeling as though she dosen't like me the way I like her. We talk and laugh, but she flirts and talks about other guys all the time. Even though I'm not her Boyfriend It does kind of make me jealous because I really like her. Should I just tell her I like her, or should i just play it cool and remain friends with her? She calls me randomly out of nowhere and we talk about serious stuff and stupid stuff, but I just don't get the feeling she likes me. I have a lot of money which might be the reason why she hangs out and talks to me. I don't know though, what are some signs that would show a guy that a grl likes him? Another thing today that was just awkward was when we were hanging out with a bunch of her friends, I just talked on my cell phone because I didn't know her friends, and I felt really awkward.

I don't think her friends like me very much, because I'm really shy around them, but I talk and I am very outgoing around her. BTW she makes fun of me a lot, even though I know she is kidding around I think, It does feel as though I should change like be more outgoing around her friends. But Its really hard because I'm not very good with talking to girls. I can make them laugh, but other than that I feel really awkward around them. I really need some help on talking to all of these girls so they don't think I'm weird.

thanks

Answer 1

I used to be that way when I first got into my teens. I was very shy around girls and didn't get many dates. I didn't think that I was cool unless other people treated me like I was cool, or hung out with me because they liked me.

As I got older I realize that people make themselves cool and likeable. You can't wait for other people to make you that way, you have to be that way on your own.. and then the people will come.


When I realized that, I began to do it and found that I got more dates than I ever dreamed of. Also, more people wanted to hang out with me.

The best part is, that I had my choice of girls, not just one girl that I didn't know if she liked me or not.

So my advice to you is.. just be you man...

I see from what you've written that you're already funny. I had this on my side too. If you're a funny guy, that helps alot.

So keep being funny, but also be confident, and don't worry what anybody else thinks about you.

Also, about this girl. Tell her that you want to take her out on a date. Just be upfront and honest. Don't tell her you're madly in love or anything LOL

But just tell her that you like her and would like to take her out. Sounds like you two are already close, so you're already in!

The guys she's been flirting with are probably the kind of guys that are already where you need to be.. confident and cool on their own.

So be yourself and you'll find that people will like you for who you are. Hopefully this girl will also.. but if she doesn't hey.. somebody better will!!

Answer 2

well-you need to tell her that you like her. that is the only way she is going to know. she probably talks about other guys to see how you will react. i would just tell her, or ask her out for a simple lunch or a cup of coffee nothing serious. if it goes well then great, but since you have admitted to "having money" i would watch her, she might just be after your money, but you should give her a chance, and that is by telling her how you feel. girls are girls, not mind readers. good luck-

Answer 3

she is a girl n she is jus saying those things to test u out to see if i like her as much as she like s u.trust me she likes u. i can tell she is also young and may tend to be shy as u r because this is all new to u.explore n lern more.first love.

Answer 4

tell her the truth about how you feel

you dont need to impress her friends and she already likes you so just be yourself.

Answer 5

Back off for awhile and see what she does.