A terrible tragic relationship?

Question

Ever since I have started dating, the boyfriends I end up with always end up hurting me. Jan. of last year, one of my ex's cheated on me right and front of me. And later on during the summer, I found out that one of my past boyfriends were cheating on me with three different girls and engaged to another one too. At the same time, I started dating another guy but later on during the Fall, he wanted to enslave me.... Why is this always happening to me? Why can I not just find the right guy ? But then again... how can I really know if this guy is my Lifemate? How am I to regain my trust in the male species?

Answer 1

maybe it is time to reevaluate the guys that you are going out with, I hear these comments a lot and usually it has to do with the guys you are going out with, that isnt your fault you cannot help who you are attarcted to but I would take a rbeak if I were you and try and get to know different people. Learn about new groups and give different types of guys a chance, there are a lot of us good guys out there, sadly the d**ks usually get the girls. Connect with your friends, spend time with them and enjoy your life and no worries about guys.

Answer 2

First of all don´t rush into relationships... there´s a meeting process and after that the dating one starts.. if you feel like you are really into this guy you can start a relationship with him.. if you just jump off the boat before you get hurt. Your ex´s probably hurted you because you didn´t take the time to get to know them better and to see what are they made of... there are lots of great guys around unfortunately the bad ones are the most willing to date one and another girl and the ones that we like the most. Just take your time to meet the guy, ask him more about himself, see if it´s worth to call him a boyfriend before you engage in a relationship with him and specially into sex.

Answer 3

Hi Dara,

Look, from everything you have told me thus far, I would say you are still pretty young, yet, and the whole life mate thing will not show itself to you until you are a bit older. Young guys have no clue what they want, and young women tend to change their desires as they grow older.

I would say give yourself a little time, and just see what happens and where it goes. Don't over-indulge relationships at this stage of your life, they are seldom permanent when started at younger ages because of the fluidity of desires between opposite sexes.

Don't get too wrapped up. That guy will come along, and when he does, you will just know.

Hope this helps...

Scott

Answer 4

THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISHES IN THE WATER AND ALL ARENT THE SAME. I SUGGEST THAT YOU KEEP YOURSELF AWAY FROM SWITCHING OVER TO NEW BOYFRIENDS FOR SOME TIME. I BET IT WILL MAKE YOU MORE CLEAR AND CALM.DONT BE SO DEPENDENT ON THE MALE SPECIES SO THAT SURVIVAL BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR YOU. AS FOR YOUR PAST IT IS BOTH BAD LUCK AND WRONG DECESIONS. LEARN FROM YOUR PAST EXPERIENCES, LOOK AT IT THIS WAY: YOUR STUPID BOYFRIENDS HAVE TAUGHT YOU NOT TO TRUST ANYONE WITHOUT PROPER SCRUTINY. BY THE WAY, A BURGER IS BETTER THAN A BOYFRIEND.

Answer 5

you just have to keep putting youself out there and hopefully you will eventually meet the right one. Look at your past exs and see if there is something they all have in common that drew you to them in the beginning because if they do that is what you should try to avoid, otherwise just try and find someone completely different, someone maybe you hadn't considered before. Just be open to new people, and try not to completely lose faith, you just had some bad luck in the past!

Answer 6

All your Ex's hurt, even the ones you get along with. That's why they're Ex's. Just call it prep time until you meet "THE ONE".

And think enough of yourself to stand on your own, The less you need a man, the better the ones who come after you.

Answer 7

no body can get a person exactly like you.love came into picture because of this difference.it is the feeling because of the difference in thinking ,like heat or cold is because of temperature difference.
so start to learn loving some one then you have to go for the whole universe ie because you will understand the science of this difference of thoughts.and finally you will understand the God ie the love of the God. because He loves all equally.

Answer 8

It appears that you are a gullible person. There are quite a good number of persons who are on the look out for gullible persons like you so that they can tempt and exploit for their short lived joy and pleasure.

Better be shrewed henceforth for your own good and happiness when moving with any male member.

Answer 9

Understand the male species and digest also understand your own nature bot he the species are polygamous by nature and nobody Can go against nature.

Answer 10

Sounds like you need a break from guys. Be on your own for awhile. You've make one bad choice after another, so stop hopping from guy to guy for awhile.