Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

This girl I'm still talking to is a total sweetheart, she's everything I could ask for. I told her I like her and she she's known for about 3wks. now I told her I wanna take it slow. She says she is busy, which she is, she really can't make time either. For one she's not suppose to have boyfriends and two she is busy with tennis, meetings (because she use to do meth), church, babysitiing, errands for her parents and uncle, cooking, cleaning, school work, and one of the last thing she needs is a boyfriend. She kinda proved she can't have one when I sorta got mad (well a lot of mad) when she didn't return my call. I told her to be blunt and tell me she is letting me down easy but she insists she still wants me to call her almost everyday and be her friend. I'm like man! What should I do she means a lot to me? I don't want nobody else. Help me please.
Should I wait or say forget it, she called yesterday but I didn't answer her call.

2007-04-19 07:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife of eight yrs. was acting very distant from for awhile. Finally I recommended that maybe we seperate for a little while. Were young and we have kids together. Well, she agreed to the seperation, which I immediately regreted asking for. It was if I was hoping she would just tell me to stop being crazy and she loves me very much. But she didn't. I asked if she would like to go to therapy w/me but she said "maybe down the road" . I still stay in our house until I get my own place. She just ignores me half the time. I'm wondering how she can just turn those feelings off, when a few months ago I thought she was in love w/me. I asked her if she still loves me and she says that she does, but, she doesn't know if she is In Love w/ me. What does that mean. Is that a womans way of saying i'm no longer in love w/ you. Or is she really confused?

2007-04-19 07:37:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never said it to her before. I suspect that she is in love with me as she plays with my hands all the time and is very touchy feely and there is a lingering eye contact at times when we are making out and pause to look each other in the eye. I suspect that she loves me and is telling me that I am on love with HER as a way of trying to get me to say it. Am I right? Why else could she be saying it. I mean she could know and keep it to herself if she didn't feel that way yet but the fact that she put it out there like that says something.

2007-04-19 07:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a girl knows how to shoot pool?

2007-04-19 07:29:36 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

But when I speak to my husband he sounds sooo sorry for his mistakes and truely loves me and the 2 kids. I want to be passionate but I also want to keep my family together. My husband now lives 850 miles away and I worry about how this will affect the kids. If I choose him, we would be moving there. Two ways to look at it...away from our friends and family or it's a new start.
Has anyone ever left someone they believed was their soul mate to keep their family together and found that you were able to fall back in love with your spouse, once you just let go?????

2007-04-19 07:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by squisitos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him Im not the type that breaks guys heart..
like yeah Ive broken a couple hearts but thats only because I think before I do something stupid..

and he said Im a heartbreaker?
why would he?

2007-04-19 07:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I hangout at this local bar every so often, the first night i met the bartender we hit it off and he asked for my phone number, i heard he has a girlfriend, so i gave him my card(business purposes) and i left to go to a freinds house,he found out i was there(he is also friends w/him) and he came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor.Everytime i go in there he makes comments to me about calling me and flirts w/me,at one point he yelled to me'i love you' as i was leaving.I usually blow off his comments and continue to have fun w/my friends and other people there even though i like him,but i hear he has a girlfriend so i dont want to be'the other girl'.Im tired of getting the impression that he likes me more than a bar flirt and i want to find out,what should i say to him?

2007-04-19 07:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, a guy introduces himself to you in a bar or restaurant for the first time. What, in order of importance, do you ladies judge him on?

2007-04-19 07:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did it. Got $1000 for it and paid for his tuition expenses without her blessing. Needed the money to do it so it was the only way to go. Exhausted all other options (loans, grants, etc.) Curious to know how selfish or selfless people believe this to be.
BTW-she does not even know it's gone yet (been 5 mos)!

2007-04-19 07:25:29 · 19 answers · asked by legend 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

over a break-up. just sick to my stomach.cant really eat. how do I pick myself up from this mess? He tried to do good things for me, I feel bad about that. but he was never around, always at work. work obsessed. I could barely even talk to him because he was always either at work, getting ready for work, or just got home from work & didnt want to be bothered.he always fell asleep on the couch and I felt alone a lot. and he never really connected w/ my daughter after 2 1/2 yrs. he went to amsterdam for a week to visit his buddy from high school, and my daughter didnt even notice he was gone.still I feel bad because I know he tried to do good things for me. am I doing the right thing?

2007-04-19 07:22:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 07:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by belmount1970 1 in Singles & Dating

Not just in regular situations either but also in more intimate settings.

2007-04-19 07:17:25 · 17 answers · asked by bleuberrie80 2 in Singles & Dating

virginity, I lost mine at 19 with a wounderful girl which I'm still dating but I've seen up here where people lost there virginity at 26, 29 and a few in there 40's just to regret doing it with the person they did it with, I notice this by other questions that other people have asked, so what is so wounderful about sex that you have to wait 30 years to do it with someone special, its only human to want to have sex at a young age, people need to have fun when they can not wait intill they are to old to do anything to do it.

2007-04-19 07:17:19 · 19 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 07:16:39 · 3 answers · asked by desigurl2k 1 in Weddings

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months (always together) and everything was going great. He told me he fell hard for me and that I was the sweetest person he has ever met. He always wanted to be around me. We would spend the weekend together and he would go home and text me how much he was missing me and would come back that night lol. He was very sweet, affectionate and the sex was amazing. He just turned 21 and I am 26. We were so wrapped up with eachother that we haven't seen our friends since we met. So, he finally met with his friends last weekend and since then has been acting strange. I finally called him and asked him if he was unhappy or wanted to break up and see other people and he told me he wasn't saying that. I even told him I would be upset if he did but not angy at him. He said he just needed some "me" time. I told him I would give him that. How long should I give him to call me? Is it over?

2007-04-19 07:16:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 07:15:40 · 11 answers · asked by Max 7 in Singles & Dating

I certainly don't expect a man/woman to sit in their room staring at the walls. I have no problem with being sociable with co-workers and having dinner and a few drinks, maybe returning to room around 10-11:00. But anything more than a few drinks, and any time later than that seems to be a recipe for trouble if you ask me. What are your opinions? Where should one draw the line?

2007-04-19 07:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jenintn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i never found me one and only...booo....whooooo...i need some mental help...someone help me...4 crying out loud....

2007-04-19 07:14:50 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 07:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Friends

2007-04-19 07:13:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

MOST OF THE MEN I KNOW - AGES 35 TO 62 HAVE TO LAY ON THE SOFA WHEN WATCHING TV! WHY IS THIS!!! ITS SOOO ANNOYING AND RUDE!!

2007-04-19 07:12:13 · 31 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 07:10:22 · 25 answers · asked by Asoka 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was with my fella for 8 years then he suddenly broke up with me saying he didn't love me anymore and he didnt see me in 'that' way. This broke my heart, I later found out that he had been in chat rooms when we was together, flirting with another woman.A few months later he wanted to try again, and i did but couldnt continue cos i didnt trust him, not only cos of the other woman, but that he might just up and leave me again. I still love him but he broke me, damaged my confidence and self worth. In the past month I have been dating a couple of men, and the 1 i am sleeping with - i just want to feel like i am attractive and someone does see me in 'that' way, but my friends think that i am a different person and my morals have gone. I keep trying to tell them that this is helping me gain my strength again, but they think i am hurting myself. I just dont want keep thinking and hurting and crying cos of my ex .....am i going about it the wrong way??? Its been 5 months since he left me

2007-04-19 07:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with a rubber suction dart. I think she's just kidding, but should I get an order of protection anyway?

2007-04-19 07:05:56 · 34 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ummm, Yeahh'! lol. If u just wanna do a simple kiss, how do ya do it?

How do you use ur tongue?
Please show me a video, or, directions.....

and if u be mean and say THEN DONT USE YOUR TOUNGUE IF YOU CANT USE IT. screw you!!!! Ill put thumbs down on u!!!!!!!

ok???

PLEASE ANSWER!!! Ill 10 pts best answer remember??PLEZ AND THANKYOU!!!! =]

2007-04-19 07:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can not stand working at my job any longer!!!! The managers are rude and blow off any complaint anyone has. Today one of the managers yelled at me for doing something one of the other managers had told me to do!!! When I tried to tell her that she blew me off so I went to the manager who had given me the instructions and she yelled at me too. This happens all the time and I am sick of it! My husband makes more then enough money for us to live on so I don't really need this job. I would much prefer to stay home with my kids and babysit for others then work where I am working. Just want some opinions.

2007-04-19 07:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 07:01:56 · 21 answers · asked by pamela m 1 in Weddings

She says she hopes that when we go on a break she'll see how much I mean to her and she'll come back. But i'm scared because she is my life, I love her with everything. What should I do? Should I let her run free or let her know that shes means to much to me to let her go and that I can't handle a break?

2007-04-19 07:00:52 · 29 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 06:59:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 06:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships