2007-04-19 07:10:22 · 25 answers · asked by Asoka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get into counseling. There are places that have sliding fee scales and don't charge much (if at all) if you're low income. You need to work out these issues that make him stop speaking to you and address your issues of loneliness.
2007-04-19 07:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some sort of reason that he is not speaking to you. Find out what it is and fix it. Speak to him and tell him that you miss him and want to make it right. Once the door is open ... the friendly will follow.
Hob
2007-04-19 15:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hobgoblin Kev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the cruelest and childish things that a grown man can do to his wife. It gets to be like a "game" about who is going to "crack" first. Try to ignore him by calling his Mom, your Mom, your sister etc. Is there any couple or family members he respects or whatever that you could invite for dinner? Maybe having friends or family over can "break the ice" for you two. If that doesn't work try buying him something that he has been wanting for a while. (if you can afford it). I know it's like rewarding bad behavior, but, you seem desperate and still love him. Good luck!
2007-04-19 14:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him a nice dinner and put something sexy on and show effort. Even if you just talk and it doesn't go anywhere else that's ok. If that doesn't work write it down in a nice letter and leave where you know he will find it.
2007-04-19 14:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about when he is sitting watching tv you go over and start massaging his feet (warm up some lotion or oil in the microwave or on the stove so it's nice and warm). And work your way up from there. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-04-19 14:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends what you did if you did anything at all if you know why he is not speaking with you and it was your falt leve him some space it may hurt but yuo should just give him some space for a while or you can do what I would do.... kiss ***!!
2007-04-19 14:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Asha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what did you do? lol.....buy something Really sexy, get some candles, and wait for him to come home in the bedroom..that should work...good luck....of course try to talk to him about it first you know..the whole don't use sex as blah blah blah...good luck : D
Tell him you want him too.. : )
HAHA AFTER READING WHAT ANOTHER GIRL POSTED and your OTHER q....I have a new perspective,
****So I bet your husband isnt talking to you BECAUSE YOU HAVE A NEW BOYFRIEND??? That's kinda slutty**
2007-04-19 14:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is your Husband not talking to you? That's never good for the marriage. He needs to grow up and be open with you at all times (mad,sad, happy). Whatever it is he needs to talk.
2007-04-19 14:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannnot make someone friendly to you, but you can take control over your own words and actions. Treat him respectfully and do kind, unselfish deeds for him. If you need to apoligize for something - do it! Love usually begats love! :-)
2007-04-19 14:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he around ignore him...if he walks into the room, walk out....hes playing games by not talking to you, if you act as though it doesnt bother you, he'll have to move onto something different
2007-04-19 14:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋