I have never said it to her before. I suspect that she is in love with me as she plays with my hands all the time and is very touchy feely and there is a lingering eye contact at times when we are making out and pause to look each other in the eye. I suspect that she loves me and is telling me that I am on love with HER as a way of trying to get me to say it. Am I right? Why else could she be saying it. I mean she could know and keep it to herself if she didn't feel that way yet but the fact that she put it out there like that says something.
2007-04-19 07:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has not told me she loves me. Although she is constantly telling me she likes me "a lot...a lot, a lot, a lot , a lot"
2007-04-19 07:35:57 · update #1
3 months dating, knew each other for 1 more mid twenties
And to the idiot that said she likes to hold my hands, learn how to read, I said she likes to play with my hands...
2007-04-19 07:46:33 · update #2
I am a bit lost here, but if you are making out than why would you not be saying "I love you"? Maybe it is just me, but I never made out with a girl that I did not love.
It sounds like she has been waiting for you to say "I love you" before she will say it. She wants to make sure that you reciprocate the words before she says them. It also does not sound like she is saying anything out of the blue. She just wants you to say that you love her.
Why are you holding back? If you do not love her then let her go. Do not play games with her heart.
Take care,
Troy
2007-04-19 07:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women relate to relationships through emotions. Like he made me feel wonderful. He was so thoughtful or that made me feel respected. But, most men relate to relationships through touch and sight. Like, Man she looks hot, or that feels soooooo good. Men and women relate differently and respond differently. However it sounds as if your gf is lacking or has lacked in the past some fundamentals of affection from people who love her (family and possible earlier bf) and is trying to convince herself that you do love her. She's trying to make herself believe by saying that out loud probably more than she trying to get you to say it. either way, she might need counseling. But dude, for real on the up and up, you shouldn't be sleeping with her if you don't have genuine feelings for her and in my opinion not til you get married, to her or to whomever you choose to marry. Don't just get it and run.
2007-04-19 14:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me this is more like youthful lust than love. There is a big difference, and judging by your thought process, you will have time to learn and understand that. Nobody can tell you that you are in love...except yourself. It's your heart, your mind...your decision. Just cause she likes to hold your hands does not indicate she's in love. Think about it...
2007-04-19 14:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be she wants to hear it from you. I wonder how long you two have been going out and how old you are?
2007-04-19 14:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea thats all that means , she loves u and she waiting for u 2 tell her back.
2007-04-19 14:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Young Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be she knows you better than you know yourself --- if you know how she feels and she knows how you feel then why say the words???
2007-04-19 14:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋