virginity, I lost mine at 19 with a wounderful girl which I'm still dating but I've seen up here where people lost there virginity at 26, 29 and a few in there 40's just to regret doing it with the person they did it with, I notice this by other questions that other people have asked, so what is so wounderful about sex that you have to wait 30 years to do it with someone special, its only human to want to have sex at a young age, people need to have fun when they can not wait intill they are to old to do anything to do it.
2007-04-19 07:17:19 · 19 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't bring up God in this I could care less about God he probably pimping all his girls if he even existed
2007-04-19 07:23:41 · update #1
I'm not saying people sould loose there virginity as soon as possible I'm just saying that why wait so long for something that after you do it a few times just turn into a normal everyday function
2007-04-19 07:25:36 · update #2
You're correct waiting is certainly not a benefit. I think when you're mature enough and your hormones have certainly consumed you get have to consider losing your virginity whether you're a man or woman. Since a lot of marriages end in abortion after really wonder what you're waiting for. Also at lease for Americans most do not necessarily expect there are bride-to-be to be a virgin.... they might be hard-pressed looking at you did. Sexual compatibility in a long-term relationship with it the marriage or boyfriend girlfriend can be quite important. That does not mean it has to be the most important but it's up there.
But losing your virginity brings on servers possibilities such as being careful and using condoms for both preventing pregnancy and preventing any unwanted unfriendly bugs.
And the guy who brought up Christian wouldn't have sex until you're married the Bible said..... I seem to remember reading about Lot... you remember that guy that had his wife turn in to salt. Remember he headed up in the mountains with his two daughters. Then the two virgin daughters got him drunk and had sex with her father. Now considering the guy just turned his wife and to salt you think you'd fry these three down to the ground. But he didn't have a problem with that. He now if you don't read the Bible at lease read the whole thing. Genesis 19:1-35 if you need a refresher course... also keep in mind the Bible was written by a lot of men... she I guess they'd want the women to be virgins.
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2007-04-19 17:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately wait. I'm not saying you are too young because I was the same age and have no regrets, however I was in a secure relationship. You may well be emotionally ready for it, but don't just rush out there and grab the first guy who shows an interest because you will more than likely end up feeling used. When it is with someone you really love it makes it so much better because there is an emotional bond between you, and as your first time can be quite painful, someone who loves you will be more likely to take care and be as gentle as necessary. Hope I've helped in some way! x
2016-05-18 23:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They wait because they are not ready or they have beliefs that they stand by. I, myself, never waited for the perfect one and I don't regret not waiting cuz SEX ROCKS. But maybe these people that you are asking about just aren't willing to break their beliefs, or maybe it's such a scary subject (and just because we don't believe in god doesn't mean that others don't, and in that society sex is taboo, especially if your not married, )
2007-04-19 08:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by supasary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one of the beautiful things about freedom of choice, some just choose to wait, some feel it is more of a religious thing, and some just don't make a big deal out of having sex
2007-04-19 07:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by eric g 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its said u have to do it with someone special coz its just not two bodies seeking pleasure by becoming one , but its also soul becoming one at that moment with your loved one...if u can have sex with everybody see around what else will u be left with to give to your loved one ? there will not be anything special between you and your loved one except the verbal expression of love n sex which you would be used to by then with other partners... feelings/emotions and sex are the two faces of love coin..it will emerge beautiful only when u share it with someone who u love and understand n wana be part of their life for ever
2007-04-19 07:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by RCD 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because, it is a personal choice
you do not loose your sexual desires as you age.
Some people feel that it improves.
Just curious are saying that you are going to stop doing it when you reach a certain age
2007-04-19 07:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by trawet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
personal choice maybe some people aren't ready at 18 or 19
2007-04-19 07:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Babe 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you got a case of homoitis. Sex is great at any age.
2007-04-19 07:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
God invented sex for married people. Teenage pregnancies and babies without daddies around are the result of premarital sex. So I say get married and then have sex!
2007-04-19 07:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
they were taught at a young age sex is for the married, or enagged.
plus feal of kids, but theres lubrification.
2007-04-19 07:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋