Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

i'm not planning on having sex any time soon, i'm only 14. but, it seems like it is going to be so embarrassing when i do because i wouldnt know what to do or say!! is this normal or am i just paranoid? what is "it" like?

2007-04-19 09:11:43 · 32 answers · asked by jenni xo 3 in Singles & Dating

Again...what does it mean?
My boyfriend of two months just e-mailed me this morning and told me (casually) that there are some things we need to discuss about our relationship and where's it's headed because he doesn't think it's moving forward in some areas. He said in a couple of ways we are not moving forward. I asked him if it was bad and he said there was nothing to worry about. He's not acting any differently than he usually does. I am 20 and he is 37. We haven't been intimate yet or said I love you to each other. He did briefly talk about moving in, but said himself that it was too early. I dunno... = S Is this bad? What does it mean?

2007-04-19 09:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I have strategically ruined my life. I met the man of my dreams and he was very into me and i pushed him away because of my past hurt and family problems. when he couldn't take it anymore i acting like a total psycho bombarding him with text messages. he never knew that i lost two close family members within 6 weeks right after we broke up and that's why i flipped. it's been a month and i'd like to reach out, but i know he won't take my calls, and any email will come accross psycho. we have mutal friends who told me he doesn't have another serious girl and i know where he hangs out. i'm thinking of trying to run into him and try to talk to him. i liked him so much, and i know he liked me at first and tried to be patient. but all my friends say once a guy decided he doesn't want you anymore, he doesn't. do i have any hope? i'm not conceited, but i'm not very ugly, and he was really crazy for me at first so i wonder if he sees me looking good it might make him want me again?

2007-04-19 09:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my ex- step sister is going to loose her 4 kids, ages 10, 8, 2 1/2, and 1 - 3 girls and the 2 1/2 year old is a boy. I know the two oldest very well they call me auntie, I don't want to separate them so we will be taking all four. The oldest is 1 year behind in school, the 8 year old in 2 years behind in school and I don't know to much about the other two. So if I do take them should I be a stay at home mom or work and send the little ones to daycare/preschool type to make sure they get skills like playing with other kids, cuz everything thing else I can teach them (colors, numbers etc) and how do I get the other girls caught up in school? A big plus is where I live the girls will be able to stay in the same elementary school.
The other child will be my 13 year old step son (whom I consider my son) who is going to move in with us in June.

2007-04-19 09:01:24 · 14 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Family

2007-04-19 09:01:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would deffentlly say my boy friend tyler (ty) for short. He's always there for me and he tells me what to do when I need help. He's trully a very nice christian.

2007-04-19 09:00:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where are the easiest girls from...outside of the US??

2007-04-19 08:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife of 6 years had a black mans baby about 4 months ago. The affair was with a man in our neigborhood and everyone knows about it now. I am so embarrassed, what should I do?

2007-04-19 08:58:38 · 76 answers · asked by upset husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not just teaching understanding in general, but is there any good things for a young child to watch that teaches against hitler etc

2007-04-19 08:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by someone 2 in Family

Please give me opinions and reasonable answers why abstinence is effective and helps teenagers. Abstinence in sexual intercourse (sex) means to refrain from having sex. Thank you for all answers. Websites would help, tooo =)

2007-04-19 08:57:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In the modern age why do most worry about being single or fear being alone? With communities being so small and the use of the internet so widespread, why do we need someone to make us complete? For most of us its frustrating and stressful to either divide our time between a partner, family & friends or do all sorts of insane things to draw our partners attention to us. Whats the point?

2007-04-19 08:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by coffeegirl019 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this may sound stupid, trivial...i duno. i like these two girls, and i think they both may like me. but theyre completely different. i duno who to choose.
i think one is hotter than the other.
but one is really fierce, and i think thats really sexy!
urgh...i duno what to do...
here's mary's picture:
www.myspace.com/marysorell
and rebeccas:
www.myspace.com/sexibexi247
rebecca once told me she thought that she was too pretty for me.
who should i choose? i just dont know.

2007-04-19 08:57:15 · 8 answers · asked by freddy b 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a good gift for a flower girl who is 3 yrs old? Something that they will enjoy now, not when they get older.

2007-04-19 08:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

All my friends are constantly being chased by tons of guys. Most of them have boyfriends and still have other guys who like them. Some of them are pretty, but I think I'm just as pretty .actually prettier than them. Maybe it is becuase I can't shed my old reputation of being a "goody good" even though most people dont think I am. Maybe its because I'm not outgoing enough becuase I'm not super confident? If thats it what should I do? What do you think?

2007-04-19 08:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i married my husband i was a virgin, and he was well experienced. In the beginning our sex was mediocre to say the least. But as we became more comfortable w/ each other, we began to try new things. My husband always seems to bring something new to the bedroom, and i want to please him in the same creative ways he pleases me. So my question is this: girls, what are some creative ways you've pleased your man?... and Guys, what are some of your favorite experiences w/ a woman?

2007-04-19 08:55:19 · 16 answers · asked by brina S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is it that gentlemen prefer? My boyfriend prefers glasses over my contacts. He likes the "intellegent" look.

2007-04-19 08:54:00 · 3 answers · asked by sleepingliv 7 in Singles & Dating

all my friends say i act white and i get offended....becuase i dont...but they did say that i am starting to act black again.....and weare true friends so dont say were not

2007-04-19 08:51:34 · 32 answers · asked by Tomanique G 1 in Friends

My friend lives in michigan. His stepdad is only related to him by marriage to his mother and he was not adopted by his stepdad so he still has his real dads last name

2007-04-19 08:51:15 · 12 answers · asked by Toms 2 in Family

I asked her out, and she sad no, but she doesn't even know why! She said I'm the most attractive guy she knows, she said I'm sweet, great, nice, amazing. Pretty much just perfect, I do nothing that bothers her.

What's the key thing to do here? Be patient with her? And let her figure it out? I mean, she said she'll probably say yes sometime, but right now she really just doesn't know?? Should I just be patient with her, and ask her when there's a perfect moment for it?

2007-04-19 08:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Jordan 4 in Singles & Dating

it seems innocent enough, but he thinks it is funny to be naked in front of others (kids in his home) and even though he was told this was inappropriate, he took pictures of his sister and he friends (they are 5 and 6) in their panties during a sleepover. At what point should the parent be concerned?? And what should she do? I am hoping that I am just paranoid, but anymore, we have to be. Advice??

2007-04-19 08:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Family

I see so many unattractive housewives these days that do not take care of themselves.

Only women with means ($$$$) seem to take care of themselves and stay looking good into their 60's.

2007-04-19 08:45:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 08:43:09 · 5 answers · asked by Dusty B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 08:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by sexylilredneck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing a big trend in questions recently women saying it is ok to use sex as a weapon and many women saying women in marriage need to be independant.
isn't being married meaning you are not independant you are part of a team you both have a stake in it both have a want to walk the rest of their lives with the other it is disturbing to think you want to be independent in a marriage isn't that just sharing the bills and if you are independent as most say aren't you then saying you can see and have sex with anyone as you did when you were single this goes for men as well though we use other terminology we call it trapped or caught by a woman and tamed so to say
what do you think shouldn't marriage be a loss of independance but not individuality
after all people are unique just like everyone else
it should still mean something is lost as well as gained in marriage I beleive

2007-04-19 08:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by Bear_Polaroid 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is dating a girl for 2 1/2 years. I met the mother, son & girlfriend included, once a year ago for dinner. Both Dad's were excluded from the meeting. We'll all get together (Dad's & Mom's) sometime in the future.My son & girlfriend will probably get married in a few years. Her older sister is getting married in June. My Husband and I were invited to the wedding (which we're not attending). We will send a wedding gift. Should we send an engagement gift if we weren't invited to the engagement?

2007-04-19 08:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by rachelschwartz2001 1 in Weddings

I have a friend that doesnt get real good grades. Part of the problem is that she is hanging out with a girl who is a bad influence. This "girl" left the school for a month and while she was gone, my friend's grades started getting better. Now that the "girl" is back, my friends grades are slipping. What do I do to help this situation?

2007-04-19 08:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Been with my girlfriend 6 months, and she has mentioned engagement, big smile on my face. We live about 400 miles apart n used to see each other every 2 weeks or so. Now if she pulls me into a shop and shows me what ring she wants, and tries it on, then is off with me for the next 3 days, what is she playing at. I love her so much and nothing would make me happier than spending my life with her, she has been hurt in the past many time, n now wants space, so haven't spoken since sunday, as to give her space, I dont want to lose her. What do I do?

2007-04-19 08:27:17 · 24 answers · asked by J 1 in Weddings

I work hard and try to provide for my family. I don't understand why my husband keeps cheating on me with my x-best friend! Should I leave him or kick her butt!

2007-04-19 08:23:23 · 21 answers · asked by blackpplrblessedppl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi im nicole. Im goin out with this girl and she thinks that she is ugly. and im tryin to tell her that shes not, but i would like yawls opinion. i would appreciate it if yawl would tell me what u think! thanks her pics are on myspace xxtaylorxxnicolexx

2007-04-19 08:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by nicoley oley 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that he has. I found condoms in his truck and his toolbox, even his wallet, and he tells me that they are his friend's. Yeah, right. He also started shaving his pubic area, armpits, and chest around the same time, and some woman was calling our house, cellphones, and even my work. He said she was his friend's wife in the divorce process with the friend, and warned me that she might tell me that they had sex, which he told me, if she does, it wasn't true. I tried to believe him, but I think I was a sucker to keep trying to make our marriage work after finding all those things out.

2007-04-19 08:21:56 · 61 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3 in Marriage & Divorce