I work hard and try to provide for my family. I don't understand why my husband keeps cheating on me with my x-best friend! Should I leave him or kick her butt!
2007-04-19 08:23:23 · 21 answers · asked by blackpplrblessedppl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry hun, I could understand how you feel. Don't stoop to her level by fighting. Why don't you save your money secretly and leave them where they are. Don't worry about seeking revenge because they will reap the benefits soon. Do something to enlighten yourself..like go to the gym, go to the club, church, visit an old friend, do something special for an older family member and God will see your positive reaction and you will be blessed....i betcha!
2007-04-19 08:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hopps-skotch12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes cheating on you and you dont know whether to leave him something is very wrong.....You are the looking stupid...of course you should leave why would stay.....do you like being in that situation....do u have kids....what kind of example are u setting for them....be smart and leave....dont kick butt for what if hes cheating on you with her....hes also cheating on her with someone else.
2007-04-19 15:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by gabby_union03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not the one with a commitment to you, keep that in mind. Your husband is the one that owes you faith and loyalty not your ex best friend. Although since she was once your best friend, I'm sure I would want to kick her a s s too, but put the consequence on the one that broke a vow to you. Personally, it wouldn't have taken but once and me find out and he would've been history then. That is the alltime cardinal sin to me. She may still get her a s s kicked given the right situation arise, but he wouldn't be around to see it!!If you can't trust your husband, you don't need him! Good riddance to them both, I say!! Here, Here!!
2007-04-19 15:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with the ex friend. Physically assaulting people never solved anything. The bone you have to pick is with your husband. Kick the dog to the curb sweetie. He clearly has no respect for you or your feelings. Let him go run off with your ex-pal. Sit back and watch after you rake him over the coals in court. When the novelty of the affair and the sex wears off they'll be at one another's throats.
2007-04-19 15:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If you kick her butt you are lowering yourself to their level. Be the better person and move on with dignity.
2007-04-19 15:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by hank 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him first then if you want to kick her butt later, do it.
2007-04-19 15:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him after you kick her butt! That's what I did!
I felf so much better after I beat the crap out of her and walked out on him.
2007-04-19 16:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and move on. It sounds like he doesn't even respect you . there are other people out there who will respect you and love you for you. don't kick her butt all your doing is lowering yourself to her level and you really don't want to go that low (she is trash for doing this to you).
2007-04-19 15:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both kick her butt and leave him
2007-04-19 15:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by lisaanndubay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do both. Kick him to the curb AND kick her butt.
2007-04-19 15:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by L Lawliet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋