Again...what does it mean?
My boyfriend of two months just e-mailed me this morning and told me (casually) that there are some things we need to discuss about our relationship and where's it's headed because he doesn't think it's moving forward in some areas. He said in a couple of ways we are not moving forward. I asked him if it was bad and he said there was nothing to worry about. He's not acting any differently than he usually does. I am 20 and he is 37. We haven't been intimate yet or said I love you to each other. He did briefly talk about moving in, but said himself that it was too early. I dunno... = S Is this bad? What does it mean?
2007-04-19 09:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see him as being my first (intimately) but not now. I'm not ready for that. I also don't want to go out and experience things sexually.
2007-04-19 09:16:45 · update #1
Okay, you may want to be prepared for what he is going to say....It might come as sort of a shock.
Since there is a big age difference here, he may want some things, or to DO some things to you that you may not be ready for, or just don't want. I think he wants to have sex with you. That is just my theory. I think that is what he meant by moving too slowly. He may also really WANT to move in with you, but is afraid you will not want too or something. He is probably just doing that to help you. I am not sure though.
He wants sex. It is pretty obvious. He just doesn't want to push it. That is what he wants to talk about. He really wants it, but he doesn't want you to think he is FORCING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is really nice that he is talking to u about it soon!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-04-19 09:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly honey, this doesn't sound good..
what he means by saying it's not moving forward in some areas is he was thinking to end it..
be strong.. this time you need your brain rules out your heart..
you guys got 17 years age difference and you are still very young.. too much age difference can create problems since both of you are not flying in the same height.. you guys have different perceptions, views, etc..
i think you should move on and find somebody who is about your age
2007-04-19 16:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is your age difference, that's a large problem.
At his age, he's had plenty of sexual activity, and you haven't.
He wants sex with you, but doesn't want to push it.
I think you have to seriously sit down and talk about your relationship. You are still too young, to get that serious.
It's time for you to play the field, and see other partners.
2007-04-19 16:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can answer your question is your boyfriend, so ask him. Don't look for problems where there aren't any, but know what YOU want in a relationship, and make sure it's headed in that direction ... even if it means finding someone new.
2007-04-19 16:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly want to know if u see a future together before he develops any intense feelings. its an adult conversation about where ur two lives are headed its not necessarily bad only if ur hesistant to commit.
2007-04-19 16:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its probably about being more intimate with each other......
dont worry, just go talk to him & see how it goes
Good luck!
2007-04-19 16:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could mean anything hun sounds like u both need a good talk
2007-04-19 16:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is looking for greener pastures and like others the money and home does matter over pretent liking.
2007-04-19 16:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he wants to have sex.
2007-04-19 16:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋