Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

I am in Love with this guy who acts like he likes me sometimes. One day he wants to make out the next he want nothing to do with me what do i do to get him to fall in love with me?

2007-04-19 10:38:25 · 15 answers · asked by courtney s 1 in Singles & Dating

I still like this guy but ive told everyone i dont "like him anymore" then i started likeing him "agin" and my friends say i dont think you have ever stoped likeing him and now i think i never did either My friends make fun of him and i stand up for him but he is sometimes "mean" to me why is he and ive asked him and he won't awnser me then one day i told him i liked someone else and all he could say was negitive things about him dose he like me?

2007-04-19 10:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 10:36:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's 22 and a former Marine. And he's already called me punk, stupid, and he's grabbed me by the neck, and started to rough me up, and then he says he's "just playing?"

2007-04-19 10:36:24 · 52 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

Did it hurt? Ladies how much does it hurt? Where is a good hiding place? Men how did you find it? How long did it last?

2007-04-19 10:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never understood why someone would have an affair. I just didn't get it I thought if you want that then leave the person you are seeing and go for it. Well now I do understand though I have not yet comitted the crime nor have anyone person in mind. I hate to say it like this I feel like such a bad person but I just want to **** someones brains out. I am married and I love my husband very much but our sexual life sucks I tried to talk to him and he doesnt seem to care. I don't want a divorce I love going to do things with him and my daughter I love the time we spend together I just really want a sexually relationship with someone else. I won't do this because I belive in setting proper examples for your children. I have been with my husband for 61/2 years now. I just want to have that fire again. If it wasnt for my daughter I would. Why after always hating people who did this am I thinking of doing this. I make myself sick for wanting this so badly.

2007-04-19 10:33:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she set the alarm off? She doesn't have anything with a security tag on her, but it never fails to activate! She's most embarrassed - it happens on the way in and then again on the way out. Anyone know how to stop this problem? (No, she's not a shoplifter!!)

2007-04-19 10:33:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married 4 yrs not so happily and have a 3 yr old son(possibly not his). Hubby and i got married right out of college both of us partyed a lot him more than me during the time we dated he never really grew out partying when we got married causing lots of problems.We both came from similar backrounds neither one of us had ever paid for anything or supported ourselves till we got married needless to say we are in a lot debt now.Hubby has gambling and alchol problems(he gets mad breaks furniture) at present but does not feel he has a problem.He cheated on me our first year of marriage and i had a fling with an ex.bf in retaliation.I got pregnant around this time and we moved to vegas for hubbys job.My son never had a paternity test done but has the same piercing blue eyes the other man has(hubby and i have bown/hazel) i feel guilt whenever i see my son.What to do?

2007-04-19 10:30:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 31 and my wife is 28. We have been happily married for 4 year now. I've always loved kids and get along very well with them. Everyone tells me I'd be a great dad and all.

But I'm scarred to have kids. I see so many couples get divorced after having kids and my own parents divorced 6 years after I was born, although they should have divorced at 3. I know that if I don't have kids I'll be missing out on something very special, but I'm not sure if I'm cut out for it. My wife wants kids. She's very supportive of waiting until I'm ready but If we never had kids I'm sure she would be disappointed. For her sake It would be selfish of me not to have kids.

Anyway, I've received alot of good answers from this site and was hoping that you all could give me some advice.

Thanks

2007-04-19 10:28:11 · 15 answers · asked by KN 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They had been together for many a year,
Now, all she could feel was fear.
She gave all that she could give,
It just wasn't the way she wanted to live.

He left without a backward glance,
Not even giving their love a chance.
She often wonders what she could have done,
To keep him from going on the run.

Now she is living all alone,
With nothing to call her own.
She can barely make herself eat,
Wondering if her life will ever again be complete.

While time had pass

This woman is now moving along,
Building her courage, and becoming strong.
Time will heel her broken pride,
Toward the sunset her heart will glide.

Whiel time passed she realize.
she does not need a man like that
So without a tear
She moved on and said " I'm done with all that "

2007-04-19 10:26:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just recently married and i cant help but feel insecure because i hardly see my husband because he works and then on his off time either hangs out with his boys or visits my inlaws.....what should i do? I feel like he needs to mature and leave parts of his past behind so that we can start our new life together. i want more time with my husband but i cant help but feel like im the one being selfish.....any advice?

2007-04-19 10:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 10:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by Tony T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the groom and I really want to help plan the wedding. I know traditionally it's the bride's day, but I want it to be an equal part because it's my day too, is it not? Also my parents will be paying over $20,000 for the wedding, not hers. What do you all think?

2007-04-19 10:24:22 · 21 answers · asked by Grisham 3 in Weddings

My lover says so... as I marvel at how hard his long penis is when we're having sex! He's so different also from my husband, in that even if after he has climaxed, the hardness of his penis remains very hard for long moments. He says it's because the feeling of a man having sex with another man's wife is so 'incomparably glorious', as he puts it. He says he'd find me less sexy if i'm single,or if i'm his wife instead. Is it true? And why so? (And how i enjoy this kind of firmness of his great penis!)

2007-04-19 10:23:51 · 28 answers · asked by Len R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 10:22:45 · 8 answers · asked by natalia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 10:21:08 · 12 answers · asked by Ana 1 in Friends

Have an ex that's now living with someone else much younger than himself. I was 6 years older than him.

Sent an email today to tell me that I'm a fat pig and that the reason I never met any of his friends was because he was embarrassed to be dating a fat old lady. Said I better get while the gettin is good before I begin to look like a cow on his new girlfriend's family farm.

Now, I understand that I'm not rail thin, nor am I in my 20's - but just the other day, at a bar, two strange men approached me and both said same thing: I'm extremely hot. Chased me around all night and neither was half bad. One was considerably younger, too.

Men I meet are always astonished at my age. I'm 36 and most think I'm about 25-26 years old. I even get carded for smokes! People from high school even tell me how well I still look.

I'm 5.9, blue eyes, blond hair down to my ***, J-Lo butt, C cups. . .everything is in it's place here. What gives with this fat pig thing?

2007-04-19 10:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scorpio he's Leo. Unfortunately I can't go with him. We've been together for three months and I saw a picture of his designer in Thailand who's a cute girl. Would you dump your boyfriend or wait?

2007-04-19 10:16:55 · 13 answers · asked by *Lovely Phoenix* 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 10:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently read in a magazine that 59% of men will lie to a woman if it will spare her feelings. Is this true in the following situation?

My boyfriend works with a lot of females and my sister was at his resturaunt eating one night when she spotted a female trying to hug him because she hadn't seen him in awhile. She said that my boyfriend politely said hello and didn't hug her. However, I know that he knew my sister was there and maybe that was the reason why he wasn't "hugging" her.

Anyway, I was wondering, if you were my boyfriend and a girl was into you and always bugging you at work, would you tell me about it? Or would you just leave it alone to spare my feelings?

2007-04-19 10:14:28 · 7 answers · asked by Me ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he opended a door for me and is kind of cute. should i talk to him? I dont really talk to nerds.

2007-04-19 10:11:29 · 23 answers · asked by Annie-<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to share this sorrow to you guys. Living without my father for over 11 years has been a nightmare, ever since my stepfather appears in my mom's life. I always get depressed everytime they fight, he's a horrible man, he abuse me verbally and emotionally, thank goodness not sexually, the abused me phisically once. I always do his job because he doesn't know how to use a computer, instead of cheering me up, he always screams at me, insult me like I'm not worth it, I'm not good in anything that I do, etc. The worst of all, my mother doesn't defend me, she always say this to me: "Just ignore him". Do you think that that is a way to defend a daughter who is abused emotionally and verbally? I'm a extremelly sensitive person and she knows that. She never listens to me, she doesn't support me on anything. I need some counsel. Thank you. Kiss, kiss

2007-04-19 10:11:18 · 17 answers · asked by . 5 in Family

I'm seperated from my husband we were talking and seeing eachother until last night, I dont think he understands marriage is a two person deal, he wants it t be all about him. Plus I'm pregnant, so it will be a three part deal. But people say give it time, but I hate feeling rejected and unwanted. I tried to move back in but the feelings of rejection and unwantedness was to much, my emotions were running high.
How long will this last . Does anyone have advice on seperation, how long were you seperated, and did it work out ok?

2007-04-19 10:10:24 · 14 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is the addition of a previous asker, about why husbands's want's to own their wifes?

So I'm curious to know ...is any of husbands equal and listen the other part, which means his wife, and let her say her an opinion and do something without pressure?

Honest asnwers please :)

2007-04-19 10:10:17 · 49 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

please say it and be mature.

2007-04-19 10:10:04 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever strayed or betrayed your loved one but were "lucky" enough never to be caught by your own web of lies & deceit?

Do you honestly believe that you are immune to punishment due to the consequences & repercussions of your own ill actions?





Your thoughts please.

2007-04-19 10:06:28 · 28 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 10:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Nunya 5 in Weddings

I generally have good relationship with my boyfriend. One problem is that when I have something to discuss with him (usually something that I was unhappy about what he is doing), he just wouldn't listen. I don' t yell, I just want to talk about it and listen to his point. He just says he doesn't wanna talk about it. Period. What should I do? are there ways?

2007-04-19 10:01:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,
Been married for seven years...no children...and am getting divorced. I fear I will be alone forever. Do you think 31 is to old to start over again. I work in an office with women years younger than me most married and have children...I feel like an old maid....how shall I feel? What do you all think...should I sunk into a major depression????

2007-04-19 09:58:51 · 26 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to take everything gingling in his pants pocket if you know what I mean. He has a good paying job but has not given us a dime since he left two years ago. I have been taking care of the boys and all the bills alone maxing out four credit cards.

2007-04-19 09:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by BEENSADOON 2 in Marriage & Divorce