Have an ex that's now living with someone else much younger than himself. I was 6 years older than him.
Sent an email today to tell me that I'm a fat pig and that the reason I never met any of his friends was because he was embarrassed to be dating a fat old lady. Said I better get while the gettin is good before I begin to look like a cow on his new girlfriend's family farm.
Now, I understand that I'm not rail thin, nor am I in my 20's - but just the other day, at a bar, two strange men approached me and both said same thing: I'm extremely hot. Chased me around all night and neither was half bad. One was considerably younger, too.
Men I meet are always astonished at my age. I'm 36 and most think I'm about 25-26 years old. I even get carded for smokes! People from high school even tell me how well I still look.
I'm 5.9, blue eyes, blond hair down to my ***, J-Lo butt, C cups. . .everything is in it's place here. What gives with this fat pig thing?
2007-04-19 10:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, not fishing for compliments. His comment truly bothered me, enough for me to post it here.
Normally, I wouldn't give it the time of day, but it came across with such animosity, I found myself stuck thinking about it.
2007-04-20 03:33:47 · update #1
Look Taurena, let go.
He has issues, wants to make you regret and doubt your life and your goals and who you are.
I know letting go of a (decent or even unfair) relationship hurts, with sensual intelligent good woman the pain is more of the loss of the whole, not the person. The relationship, the status, the cosiness of knowing one person is seductive but he is 100% not worth your future happiness or even your current condition, get him to the curb and find someone to invest all that power into!
Besides...., cows and pigs are our food staples world wide..he is trying to deman you by making referances to our lifeblood, our livestock that everyone needs? Come on, in india cows are sacred...you're a goddess!
2007-04-19 14:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by lithuim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can bag a much younger guy for fun at your age, more power to ya. Just forget about the disgusting old loser you left behind. As men get older they just get more emotional baggage, and baggage everywhere else for that matter. They also have to buy a younger partner, unlike women. You should just block his email addy and forget his azz.
2007-04-20 03:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by david e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 23:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by carolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nadja, how could you let what your ex said hit you this bad? The guy is playing a psychological game with you. He knows you well enough to hit you where it hurts most. He will say anything - true or false - to hurt you. Ignore him and concentrate on your next step in life - after him!
But who in hell said fat people are not nice people?!
2007-04-19 20:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by gmude2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to make you feel bad. If you are happy with your weight and attracting guys you are into, just write off that loser.
2007-04-19 13:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are just fishing for compliments , whats the big deal what one guy said to you !!!!! he is your x , get over it !
2007-04-19 14:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋