Are you a faithful individual?

Question

Have you ever strayed or betrayed your loved one but were "lucky" enough never to be caught by your own web of lies & deceit?

Do you honestly believe that you are immune to punishment due to the consequences & repercussions of your own ill actions?





Your thoughts please.

Answer 1

I am truly honest and faithful. I have never cheated on anyone, and I expect the same in return. That is probably why, at the age of 39, I have never married. I expect full honesty and communication in every relationship. If someone wants to date someone else, that is fine, but they need to tell me first, as I do not date more than one person at a time, especially when we have already said dating each other exclusively.

I was raised differently, or rather, take things differently than others. I treat others as I want to be treated. I am not perfect and I am not going to say I have been perfect in every relationship, but I have never cheated and will never cheat.

If someone cheats, I sincerely believe that what goes around will come around. I use to pray that one guy who was bad to me, threw me against the wall, ONE time would apologize. It took 3 years, but out of the blue, he called and left a message apologizing. Prayer does work.

I have finally met someone who I know will never cheat on me. I know that I respect him more because of the other guys I have encountered. We all have our faults, but it is the little things we can overlook. It is the things like cheating and lying that I cannot overlook and will not ever forget. Once that happens, it is time to move on. Eventually, you will find someone who does not cheat. I did. To those who do cheat, it will eventually come back to you in one form or another.

Think twice before you do...............Be respectful of the person you are with and end it before you decide to go on to someone else. It is the right thing to do.

Answer 2

Karma bites. I believe it.

I can't say I've been completely faithful through my whole past, I haven't specifically cheated, just spent a lot of time w/ someone else behind his back (and lied about it). And for the month after it, we fought constantly but he didn't find out. Then he cheated, we ended. Karma? Yeah. For the past few years I have been really faithful though. I've been tempted many times in the beginning, but I've never fallen for it. Girls are girls, we're tempted a lot but we know it's not right.

Answer 3

20 years and I never cheated AT ALL not even a kiss
she cheated on me and lied about it but I caught her. I still did not want to cheat. Now after 5 years of knowing that and putting up with her hating me I think I could stray if the right opportunity struck but knowing myself as I do, I would probably walk away.

and she feels I should just let it go as far as her cheating on me

Answer 4

YES. I cheat all the time. I don't believe in monogamy, but unfortunately my partner does.

I do not believe I'm immune to punishment, but I figured, hey all my best friends will be burning in the eternal fires of hell anyway so might as well have a great party down there. Who wants to be in heaven anyway with a bunch of do-gooders and boring people who don't know how to have fun?

Ps. From the way you phrased the question, looks like you're on track to going to heaven. But don't forget, judging others is a sin. Have a good day.

Answer 5

The saying fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you comes to mind here. I would say you may be able to get away with it for a while, but eventually, things have a way of flying back to haunt you, no matter how good you hide things. I personally would never do anything like that, but I know plenty of people who had and though it was the best thing, until something bad happened to them.

Answer 6

When I thought about being unfaithful I ratted myself out. I knew that there was something horrible wrong in my marriage if I was thinking about cheating.... My husband and I worked things out, made the changes that needed to be made and we are very happy and blessed. I never did stray and never would.

PS to those that think it is ok if they did not get caught, GOD SAW YOU

Answer 7

I'm very faithful. I won't say that I've never been tempted but I'm never strayed or even let a situation escalate to the point where it would be hard to turn back.

Answer 8

I have never been unfaithful to my fiancee. I would never ever do that. No matter how strong the temptation is. I made a vow, too myself many many years ago, after my dad cheated and left my mom, that i woud never hurt anyone like that. And i have kept true to my vow.

Answer 9

I cheated on one person ever...years ago.
He never had a clue. It went on for about a month and one day he came home to find me packing my things. He asked me what I was doing and I told him "I cheated on you and now I'm moving out". He was surprised and he told me he Loved me and we'd work it out,but I told him no, that he deserved to be with someone who had not cheated on him. I was sorry and I have never cheated ever again. i have been cheated on and have been the cheater, and to me it hurts much worse to be the cheater.
Oh...by the way, that guy I cheated on has been happily married now for ten years to a great girl. they have 3 kids.

Answer 10

Been faithful for 45 years so ain`t going to change now. But I believe that ultimately punishment will happen, may take a while but it will happen.