Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

2007-04-19 12:14:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with this boy for about 5 days and he dumped me because he said he wanted to get closer to God. After 2 or 3 months he texts me and tries to flirt and I tell him to leave me alone and ask his god out. He won't leave me alone. What does he want?

2007-04-19 12:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this guy rejected me and i basically talled the WORST crap about him w/ "our" friend EVER...but we were only bored in class and needed a laugh and it sorta sliped out b4 i knew it.
i HOPE i can trust her not to tell him, cept it was HILARIOUS!!!
and i don't want him to find out.
she promised sh'ed never tell...but the thing is i'm not 100% sure if i can trust her.

2007-04-19 12:08:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this is my sister's question. Ok, This is very dramatic so here goes. Well, even though my sister and this guy have been going out since march 30th people didn't know that my sister and him were going out until a couple days ago this week. Well, they have been the cutest couple, talking alot on the phone/school, shy, and they have ALOT in common. This girl, (we'll call her d) is jealous now that she heard them going out. She's been asking questions with my sister's friends and telling that she dated him last year for 6 weeks. And D's ex boyfriend which is currently my sister's boyfriend right now broke up with her randomly as the story goes. But he seems to really like my sister and D is really jealous now and always has been asking questions. Everyone knows shes jealous, but why does she care? She's had ALL year to go out with him and it's April already.. he's been single the whole year until march 30th. What's her deal?

2007-04-19 12:06:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy in my hotel when i was on vacation. i was scheduled to leave on a sunday and so was he. we met on the friday before that, so we really had only two days together. on friday night, i told him to meet me at the pool the next day. so on saturday, i went down to the pool to look for him, but i only saw his mom (he was there with his family).she said he left the pool but was looking for me. she gave me his number. i called him and we met up and hung out the rest of the day. both days i had a great time with him and we really hit it off well. he seemed really interested in what i had to say and it was just a lot of fun. i called him sunday night when i got home, but he didnt answer so i left a message. well now its thursday and i still havent heard from him. i am pretty sure that he is not the "cheating" kind of guy and i dont think he has a gf. i met his family and they seemed nice and also seemed to like me. i know he was having problems with his cell too. should i call again?

2007-04-19 12:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half. Decebmer he took me to CA to meet his family and childhood friends. We live together. He says I'm his best friend and he talks about us growing old together. Howerver, he says he doesn't wanto get married for a long long time? after Med school. Thats like ten years from now. Do you think he really wants to marry me or he's just saying that?

2007-04-19 12:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by iman_tx22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mmk so I hate my mom and idk if she hates me but its like everytime I am around her we always fight. I am a rude person I admit, I have NO respect for her. I curse at her all the time and I have a little bit on anger managment. I dont act like this at all at school and I have tons of friends, its just that when I hate my mom and shes like so rude and ugly and I HATE HER! Ugh she makes me so mad. I want to stop it though cause I am sick of all the arguments... I just turned 13.. Please Please Please help me!

2007-04-19 11:53:04 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ 4 in Family

my husband is uncompromising and domeneering.we have 3 kids and he named them all without discussing it with me.he told me to do the tubal ligation which i did.things arent getting better though.he wont even discuss our family finances with me.should i have tied my tubes in these circumstances?why doesnt he care for me or my opinion?is he having an affair?are there any happy endings for women in my situation?

2007-04-19 11:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by ceomum5 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 11:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by shellnaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, here is a little information about myself:

-I am a 17 year old male
-I Play sports (Football)
-I Lift weights often
-I Take pride in style and how I am portrayed (I shop at alot of the popular stores for my age, ie American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie & Fitch)
-I'm shy, I have a few close friends and another handful I hang out with from time to time.
-I have a really hard time talking to girls, I just can't seem to muster up the courage to make a conversation
-I believe myself to be in the top 90% as far as looks goes

With that being said, I have a little predicament.

At my school, in EVERY class I am in and most everywhere I go, I have girls staring at me. Being as shy as I am, I have a hard time looking them in the eye and giving them a smile, even though I would love to do so. Do they find me attractive/hot? Or does this normally happen on a day to day basis? Also, is there any advice you would suggest to boost my confidence, so I can strike up a conversation?

Thank you

2007-04-19 11:41:54 · 21 answers · asked by Jordan S 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy told me he liked me since we first met, which was 3 years ago. Well he says I mean alot to him, and that he would do anything for me. He has a "girlfriend" but he says they are just really good friends and people mistaken them for a couple. He wanted to kiss me but I felt that I would be the one that would ruin his relationship with his "girlfriend". He says that she is moving and their planning to break up. Should I believe him? I like him too.

2007-04-19 11:41:17 · 37 answers · asked by Jeannie 1 in Singles & Dating

If you had to choose between the following which would you choose (if you're a bride to be, which would you prefer)

Pay for babysitter and go to a friends wedding but just bring a crad and no gift
or
Buy a small gift but not go to the wedding?

Note: My husband is a groomsman and will go even if I stay home with the kids. The bride and groom paid for half the tux for my husband.

2007-04-19 11:37:16 · 20 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 in Weddings

My little brother is going to Iraq this year. I am hoping to go visit him at the end of May. His birthday is coming up soon and I have no idea what to get him. I want to get him something he can take with him to Iraq.

2007-04-19 11:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by lovepink317537 3 in Family

You have to help me! My bf is leaving for Iraq in about 2 months and I can't stop thinking about it. Its tearing me up inside. Ive tried to not think about it but I do anyways. Every hour I almost start crying. He hasn't even left yet and I'm this upset! How am I going to handle myself when he leaves....I'm going to be a miserable wreck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-19 11:35:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing this guy for over 8 months now and have been having feelings for him and thought he was having the same for me. for about the last week he has backed off and today called and we talked. he said that i was coming on to strong and he just wants someone to have fun with and do things with. am i wrong to think that when a guy calls you and texs you all the time or has you buy a tooth brush to keep at his house or has you go with him to his familys holiday parties that he is wanting more than sex buddies? dont get me wrong i enjoy our time together and will keep seeing him but i dont get the mixed messages. am i reading between the lines or is he having feeling for me and freeked himself out? he said that he doesnt want to stop seeing me just wants me to know that he isnt wanting more than what we have now. how do i know when he is ready for more? i really need a owners manual...

2007-04-19 11:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by chatterbox 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've already asked this question, but I think I was misunderstood. My ex and I have a son together. I've paid $600 a month in child support for almost 10 years. The order was modified over 6 years ago. Since then, I've married and have 2 other children. My wife is a full-time student. My ex has married a military man and lives on base. She pays $0 for housing, food and utilities. I already know I could lower my support based on my income being less than it was 6 years ago also our son now spends 50% with me. Since my ex pays nothing for the basics could that be considered in calculating child support?

2007-04-19 11:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 11:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in charge of making a guestbook for my sister's wedding in June. I have never seen a homemade one, but I have heard they are really cute. Does anyone have pictures/websites that I could check out to get some ideas? OR, if you have tips to share with me on how to make it look great! THANKS!

2007-04-19 11:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by @ 2 in Weddings

I have a question about my ex. We broke up about 4 months ago but we have a lot of history.. We have known each other for about 8 years. Anyways he broke it off because we were having to many differences but he told me he still loves me and he probably always will because it isn't something you can turn off when you want. He told me that he thinks we should move forward right now and that he is afraid if we went back together this soon we would fall apart again and he can't take that again. he can't go through that seperation again because he got so depressed he almost ran into a 18 wheeloer. I know he isn't over me because for 1 he told me so and 2 he still gets intensely jealous when he thinks of me being with someone else. I don't understand why he thinks we should move forward, but he hopes one day we get back together. Please dont respond saying.. oh this guy is Lying. I know he isn't . I really do. He does believe we are soulmates, but right now he seems to believe we won't work.

2007-04-19 11:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-19 11:26:31 · 13 answers · asked by This Charming man 1 in Singles & Dating

To hide money from your spouse during a divorce?Been married 4 yrs hubby has gambling and alchol problems(he gets mad breaks furniture) at present but does not feel he has a problem thus the marriage is failing.We are in alot of debt currently lots of stuff is being charged on credit cards.I have a small stash of about 7,000 dollars in it. If i put it under my parents name can hubby not take it in a divorce?Also how are debts split in a divorce?

2007-04-19 11:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a real problem with getting along with people. I cant seem to get along with anyone. I always end up in arguments and confrontations. I want to move close to my family because I dont get along with them. I really need to be near people who care about me because i am disabled and so is my son. People out here always take advantage of me and I end up losing things and i keep having to move from place to place. I cant keep a relationship. Things just dont work out for me . I try hard to do things right and it seem as though i keep going backwards. I want to move on with my life and be okay with the way things are. I am tired of getting hurt out here.

2007-04-19 11:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by e3z8q0 2 in Friends

Hi im getting married this year and we where planning on having a honey moon. We got the Hotel booked and everything, but just the other day I decided not to go on my honey moon, as we dont really have enought money to spend there its only too blackpool, even if we start saving now last time we went we spent £200 in just one day. We are asking for money instead of wedding gifts as we already live together we dont really need anything we are saving for a new depsoit for a new house. Anyways on our honey moon we were going to use some of the money we get to spend on our honey moon incase we dont have enough. Im always worring about things like money and stuff. But then I felt guitly about using the money we get for saving as its towards our furture, but I do want to get away for a few days as we have never really been away together for various reasons. We probably will have enough to go if we save from now on but I feel guilty about taking it out of the wedding money if we have too.

2007-04-19 11:23:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whoo..I'm so hurt right now..but anyhow I met this guy at my gym he was a personal trainer, and basically he asked me out when I intially met him, but I didn't take him up on his offer, so a few months past, and I asked him to join me at starbucks, he told me he was busy, then we put it off and he told me he was too broke, so thogught to myself, okay I'm not messing with tim because he['s flaky, so i see him at the gym about three weeks ago and he asks me out again...and he calls me a few days later and tells me his uncle and close friend died, and that when he sees me at the gym, he'll let me know when we can hang out again..so a few days laster I see him, and he text messages me, asking me "How come i didn't speak to him? And I'm thinking Huh...but you were training? So today,.I just ask him flat out if there is anyone at the current moment that he likes more than a friend" and he tells me that there is and she's his top myspace friend..so i ask him if he likes me more than a frie

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and he tells me that "He can't say that he do" and goes on to say he isn't attracted to me in that way, but does say that he does find me to be very good looking and cool, but he just doesn;t see me in that way...so I'm feeling like crap. what should I do?

2007-04-19 11:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What did you do to get back at them? Did you think on that plan long and hard or did you do it right away? My husband cheated on me New Year's Eve with an ex-fling and he even had unprotected sex with her. We have lots of problems besides this, but I love him dearly. However, right after it happened I was thinking about finding me somebody to date on the side (not necessarily to have sex with them). I didn't act on that thought at all, but I quickly reminded myself that two wrongs don't make a right and if you love somebody you CAN make the marriage work. I am just curious to hear what others have done.

2007-04-19 11:20:51 · 20 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone around you are your friends. But how do you know they are your true friends???

2007-04-19 11:20:07 · 32 answers · asked by Teri 1 in Friends

making out...kiss...where is the hottest place for a girl to put her hands while kissing....just anything give me more ideas...i hav ea boyfriend of 5 months..were fine i just want more ideas lol

2007-04-19 11:15:20 · 1 answers · asked by yorker34 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy and i have only met him a few times and i want to ask him to my hs formal...should i ask him and how should i ask him?

2007-04-19 11:14:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Beautiful white brunette girl meets handsome white blonde guy. Girl's father is short black man, and mother is white sex therapist. Problem is father wants daughter to marry dirtball guy. Was on HBO 1mo. ago and did not catch credits, nor title. Movie was a comedy spoof! Funny as hell! I need name of movie.

2007-04-19 11:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by Theresa F 1 in Weddings

Hi my son has been asked to be a ring bearer at a wedding later this year. It is of family (inlaws) I barely know... he doesn't know them at all. He will have just turned 3. At this time he can be a "terrible two" not following directions; being strong willed etc. I don't see this changing anytime soon. How do I tell them no without getting them mad -- we will have a new 6 month old at that time... plus we will have to travel to the wedding. All expeses and time... for what... us exhaustion and most likely embarrasment. Isn't this too young to be in a wedding? It is supposed to be a special day for the bride and groom and I just see it getting ruined. Not because our son is a brat as I have read on other web sites but because he is a little boy... and what little boy needs to be stuck in a wedding? I don't find it an honor more of a hassle? Any ideas??

2007-04-19 11:11:31 · 14 answers · asked by babs1373 2 in Weddings