2007-04-19 12:14:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just leave her. And later on you might want to work on your self-respect.
2007-04-19 12:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you could divorce her and then she will be sleeping with other people!!
If she is not a willing participant in your fantasy, then there is nothing you can do legally. If you get her drunk off her rocker and allow others to have sex with her, by Ohio law, you have facilitated a rape. Be careful. Have some respect for your wife, or get a divorce and find a freaky chick.
Only advice I can give you. Oh, by the way....you are making my life easier. The more idiots there are like you out there, the more women I have to choose from!! LOL
2007-04-19 19:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, that kind of demand on a spouse can be a DEALBREAKER. If she wasn't into that kind of thing when you got married, and hasn't shown any interest in it since then, you married the wrong kind of girl. She sounds like someone who takes her marriage vows very seriously- which it doesn't sound like you do. It's one thing when people go into a marriage with the idea of it being an "open marriage," but you can't demand that after the deal is sealed. Why do you want her to sleep with other people? So she can find someone better? So she can compare you to them, and you can have constant thoughts of if you are better than the other guy? Are you trying to run her off and have as little of a guilty conscience as possible? Did you cheat on her, and you think by having her sleep with someone else it would ease your conscience? I guess I don't understand why a guy would WANT his wife to sleep with another man, if he really VALUED his wife......
2007-04-19 19:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just went thru this 2 weeks ago. My husband wanted to watch me have sex with another man. It had been all talk for months. Then we had a friend over had drinks then it happened. We have been together 7 yrs and neither of us has cheated. But I will tell you something. You are asking for alot of problems. Now that i have done that I want more. The first few days after it happened I was sick in heart. I still feel that way but my urges are over powering it. I wish that it never happened. Because now I have to overcome these feelings. I only tried to live my husbands fantasy because i love him. Now I know fantasies are just that. They are for your head not meant to bring to life. I hope I helped.
2007-04-19 20:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by linluv2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted an open relationship you should have made that clear prior to marrying her. You should feel lucky that your wife is faithfully to you. Not all husbands have that if you’ve seen some of the questions on yahoo answers.
2007-04-19 20:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m stump here. Why my “hot Ohio wife”? I mean if you really want people to know that your wife is from Ohio, why don’t you put your address here? I would prefer to say “my hot wife”.Also “hot” to describe your wife? Kinda like college. Better use lovely, sexy or voluptuous, gorgeous.
2007-04-20 03:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Slug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How disrespectful can you be??? She wants to be faithful to you, and NOT have sex with anyone other than you. You need to QUIT being so controling and trying to make your wife do something she doesn't want to do and also doesn't feel comfortable with.
By wanting her to have sex with other people your basically telling her that you don't respect her at all.
Grow up and learn some respect for you wife.
2007-04-19 19:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her and I bet she'll be happy to meet and make love to some other guy that doesn't want to share her.
2007-04-19 19:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't if your smart you could be opening a can of worms you won't believe. Fantasy is on thing reality is another. Wake up and don't be stupid
2007-04-19 19:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to be with others then let her divorce your sorry a** your perverted she has values and she isn't going to be a ho because you want her to sleep with other men while you watch.
2007-04-19 19:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋