Whoo..I'm so hurt right now..but anyhow I met this guy at my gym he was a personal trainer, and basically he asked me out when I intially met him, but I didn't take him up on his offer, so a few months past, and I asked him to join me at starbucks, he told me he was busy, then we put it off and he told me he was too broke, so thogught to myself, okay I'm not messing with tim because he['s flaky, so i see him at the gym about three weeks ago and he asks me out again...and he calls me a few days later and tells me his uncle and close friend died, and that when he sees me at the gym, he'll let me know when we can hang out again..so a few days laster I see him, and he text messages me, asking me "How come i didn't speak to him? And I'm thinking Huh...but you were training? So today,.I just ask him flat out if there is anyone at the current moment that he likes more than a friend" and he tells me that there is and she's his top myspace friend..so i ask him if he likes me more than a frie
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and he tells me that "He can't say that he do" and goes on to say he isn't attracted to me in that way, but does say that he does find me to be very good looking and cool, but he just doesn;t see me in that way...so I'm feeling like crap. what should I do?
2007-04-19 11:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up. Your feelings are hurt why? Because one person in this world doesn't like you more than a friend? Poor choice of guy to be chasing anyway. A broke personal trainer. Shoot a little higher and you may find a man that is worth your time.
2007-04-19 11:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are your feelings hurt? The guy is obviously not very innterested with you, never have been. Why do you keep hoping for more? You gotta be a lot more realistic and thick-skinned to even try and play the dating game. If you get offended every time some random guy is not terribly interested, you're in for a world of hurt. Stop the self-pity, get over it, and find a guy who's interested.
2007-04-19 11:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to deal with him at the gym, fine. Otherwise, don't bother with him on a personal basis. He's playing too many games for my tastes.
2007-04-23 11:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dealt with somebody like this for almost two years. We never once dated. He thought I was cute and nice but I was not somebody he could see himself dating. If you know that you cannot accept his feelings for you move on. I finally did.
2007-04-19 11:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gym when he's not there.
He sounds like a fruitcake to me--stay away from him!
2007-04-19 11:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to kiss your fit firm azz
2007-04-19 11:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Christy & Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are just playing a game of tag
2007-04-19 11:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you along. Play it cool. He wants you.
2007-04-19 11:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! He is obviously a player.
2007-04-19 11:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone unless you are a glutton for punishment
2007-04-19 11:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋