i met a guy in my hotel when i was on vacation. i was scheduled to leave on a sunday and so was he. we met on the friday before that, so we really had only two days together. on friday night, i told him to meet me at the pool the next day. so on saturday, i went down to the pool to look for him, but i only saw his mom (he was there with his family).she said he left the pool but was looking for me. she gave me his number. i called him and we met up and hung out the rest of the day. both days i had a great time with him and we really hit it off well. he seemed really interested in what i had to say and it was just a lot of fun. i called him sunday night when i got home, but he didnt answer so i left a message. well now its thursday and i still havent heard from him. i am pretty sure that he is not the "cheating" kind of guy and i dont think he has a gf. i met his family and they seemed nice and also seemed to like me. i know he was having problems with his cell too. should i call again?
2007-04-19 12:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he really didnt seem like a bad guy. he was actually kinda of shy at first and i had to pursue him, and even after that it took him some laughs and talking to get him to open up, but i could tell he was glad i did. like i said, he had a bad cell connection the whole time. in his voice message, he had other numbers...should i try to call those? i was thinking about waiting until this sunday to call again at all. he knows how to get a hold of me...
2007-04-19 12:08:34 · update #1
oh and if at makes any difference, he was there with the same company that i was there with...it was a convention type thing. and the company is a christian company....a very christian company.
2007-04-19 12:12:55 · update #2
Personally, I would call the other #'s - (hopefully his home phone & not his cell?). But I would only try it once if I was able to leave a message that I know he received for sure. If I didn't hear back from him after a couple of days, I'd let it go & move on.
Sorry to say it, sweetie but I have to. If he was really interested in hooking up w/ you again, he would have contacted you somehow by now. He knows your #, right? And he has a regular phone....
You seem really sweet. I hope he calls and you two pick up where you left off. If not, I am sure another, better guy will come along and sweep you off of your feet.
Good luck either way.
2007-04-19 12:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it was on vacation...He's got your phone number. Now banking on a possible screwup - call again this weekend and see if his number works...if not, forget it and chalk it up to a weekend fling
Grace
2007-04-19 12:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unless you try you will not no just text him and see if he contacts u give him 1 week if their is no contact get over it move on lifes to short plenty to choose from out their in the world
2007-04-19 12:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE, DON'T PLAY YOURSELF. HE HAVE A GF... DON'T YOU KNOW THAT FAMILY STAND TOGETHER AS ONE... YOU CANT KNOW A PERSON IN 2 DAY AND THERE LIKES AND DISLIKES... GET OVER AND MOVE ON.. ( JUST BETWEEN US TRY AGAIN AND IF HE DON'T ANSWER HIS CELL PHONE MOVE ON.) :-)
2007-04-19 12:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your instinct. has he been ignorin you? if yes then don't because its too risky and it might agrivate him.
2007-04-19 12:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by eminemlovexo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him.
2007-04-19 12:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋