it seems innocent enough, but he thinks it is funny to be naked in front of others (kids in his home) and even though he was told this was inappropriate, he took pictures of his sister and he friends (they are 5 and 6) in their panties during a sleepover. At what point should the parent be concerned?? And what should she do? I am hoping that I am just paranoid, but anymore, we have to be. Advice??
2007-04-19 08:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It could just be a phase, but she needs to talk to him NOW!
It is inapproprite. My nephew is 8 and does that sometimes around his house. I just think that they should keep there clothes on. Someday someone may come by the house that does not want to see anyone naked . It will be a hard habit to break when they get older. Good Luck!
2007-04-19 08:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Amber G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now!!!!!!! Where is he getting his information form? Someone needs to talk to his parents and ask them are they aware that this is a sign of being overly exposed to sexual behavior. He could be around older kids that are teaching him this and that's not good. I HAD a friend that teaches her kids the wrong things and sees nothing wrong with it and laughs when you mention it's wrong. I just don't go around them anymore. I think the taking pictures is a little over board and the girls should not be in their panties around this child they may not be safe.
2007-04-19 08:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parents should have been concerned long ago. That is way too old to be acting that way. And it is way too young for it to be a normal curiosity that many kids go though when they enter puberty.
2007-04-19 08:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! That does sound pretty odd. I think I'd ask a mental health professional if they think it's just a passing phase or it he's a pervert in training.
Sorry about that last part, but seriously....
2007-04-19 08:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, see you later because the adolescents dad and mom are comfortable with it, then i do not see why he shouldn't bypass alongside with you and your family contributors. i'd not in basic terms take the teen on my own even with the actuality that without permission from his family contributors. Does your son bypass with you to the nudist sea coast? Why ought to that's any different to take a chum of his, see you later as he has permission?
2016-12-04 07:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of it is natural curiosity, but you need to tell him that nudity is for private, and somebody else 's nudity is personal and private and tryng to take pictures or see someone else naked can get you in trouble because its going against their right to privacy.
2007-04-19 08:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to explain to him that that is a bad thing to be obsessed with. it may have to do with poor parenting ( are the parents obsessed with nudity?). ask him where he got the idea. if it was from a friend, explain to him why he cant be around that friend anymore.
2007-04-19 08:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwwww!!!! That kids parents need to be concerned NOW! What are they waiting for, the kid to sexually assult someone or something???
2007-04-19 08:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dallas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to be told that kind of behavior is not funny. if that doesn't work sound like he needs to see a therapist . he has potential to grow up to be a sex addict or serial killer.
2007-04-19 08:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by funny monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that aint right,, while it is normal to be curious about nudity, it doesnt sound like the boy has all his marbles
2007-04-19 08:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋